Security Escorted Me Out of Husband's Workplace. I am So Angry/Embarrassed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He makes me that way.

Be *VERY* careful here. This is the first red flag that you are becoming an abuser. A classic warning flag is when the abuser starts to blame the victim that the victim makes them do this to them.

If you can't find a better way to resolve your differences than to become loud, angry and abusive, then you need to step back and find alternate solutions. Consider setting up weekly "appointments" to discuss family finances. If he won't attend, then perhaps you need to get professional counseling.

[Anonymous]

Something like this happened at my job and we ended up having to call the police. The workplace is not an appropriate time to confront your spouse about issues unless you want them to get fired. And worse, even though it happened years ago people still talk about it.

[Anonymous]

"Perhaps" she needs professional counseling? I think that's a sure bet. What normal, grown woman can't accept responsibility for their own behavior? And ignores boundaries?

An abuser rehabilitation program would be best.

[Anonymous]

Troll, but a good one. Well-played OP.

[Anonymous]

Is this for an assignment you have to do for 10th grade english class?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, are you the poster from a while back who got into an argument with her husband in the car?

Link, details? I'm enjoying reading about insane behaviors.

I wish I could find the thread, I've tried searching....

[Anonymous]

First, I hope it is troll.

If not, I hope your DH divorces your sorry ass.

[Anonymous]

This has GOT to be a joke.

If not, your poor husband must be horrified.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am under a lot of stress right now. For my own business, I was at my husband's workplace today to give a presentation and afterward we met. He told me he only had 20 minutes, but I needed to discuss with him some financial matters that have a deadline today. When he said he had to go, I got angry (he always seems to have something else to do other than discuss issues with me and he is always putting his work before my needs). In any case, I started to argue with him. He said he did not have time for this argument and certainly not at his place of work. However, I was so angry I just couldn't stop. He told me to keep my voice down. I told him to shut up and listen. At some point, some woman came out and asked him if he needed help. I told her to mind her own business, she then called the building security. They came and asked me to leave. My husband at this point told me that I need to follow their directions. WTF? He should be standing up for me. In any case, I am now so angry that he forced me to act this way and embarrassed me in front of everyone and on top of that had me escorted out of his building by security. What kind of husband does such a thing?

You have mental issues for sure. If you can't see that YOU embarrassed YOURSELF, and also that YOU embarrassed (probably mortified is more like it) your HUSBAND, then you are just bat sh*t crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something like this happened at my job and we ended up having to call the police. The workplace is not an appropriate time to confront your spouse about issues unless you want them to get fired. And worse, even though it happened years ago people still talk about it.

Details please and thank you.

[Anonymous]

Dear OP...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So op, are you going to go to your husband's holiday party??

LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So op, are you going to go to your husband's holiday party??

LOL

[Anonymous]

This one is ranking as one of my top 3 DCUM stories.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband would file divorce papers today if I ever acted like this. And he'd be right.

You are 100% in the wrong in about 5 different ways.

Exactly.