Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is such a common college roommate issue and has existed forever. If she can't handle this you haven't really equipped her very well for problem solving
Are you serious? Most people, young or old, aren't equipped to sleep two feet from somebody other than themselves having sex.
So the DC is the bad guy while the roommate comes off as the beacon of good manners. If I were DC, I would mention it ONE TIME. If it didn't resolve, than ask for another room. The RA will intervene but it won't change the roommate and will create bad feelings because the roommate will feel victimized, her rights trampled.
If she doesn't have enough respect for her roommate (obviously she has none for herself as she's having sex with an audience), then I say move on. It's not the DC who isn't equipped, it's the roommate and her disrespect. Jeez!