Size 14, pretty face, 215 pounds. Would you date me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I say this as an overweight person.

First of all, if you are 215 lbs at 5'8 you are not a size 14. I'm a 12 and weigh 180, same height.

Secondly - I can't stand when fat women say they have big boobs (again, I do too). Boobs are made of fat. You have big boobs because you are fat.

I don't think it would hurt to start dating - but you have to be realistic about your options. And don't post a pic where you are way skinnier than you are now.

I don't agree with the whole " you have bound because you're fat". I am 5'2, 112lbs and have 32c breasts. All the women in my family are petite-framed but have big chests. I've never been overweight in my life. A woman can have big breasts without being overweight.

To OP: Change your weight and lifestyle to make you happy, not others. I do believe you should for health reasons but I think all Americans would be better off at a normal BMI. If you are comfortable with yourself, don't change. From my experience, most men like women that are in shape and healthy.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would definitely date you. 180 would be perfect, but I'm not perfect either. I bet we'd exercise, bike, walk, and play frizbee together and before long we'd both be awesome.

I bet you're fun to go to games with, spend time, split a pizza, and go to bed with.

Of course I'd date you.

[Anonymous]

OP here - I'm doing weight watchers and have been on the program for the past 6 months and have lost 35 pounds. When I was 'thin' I was 150 and a size 6. Boobs were D's. They're more fat now but I still have some when I'm at a healthy weight. This thread is actually starting to make me feel worse. Sorry for starting this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - I'm doing weight watchers and have been on the program for the past 6 months and have lost 35 pounds. When I was 'thin' I was 150 and a size 6. Boobs were D's. They're more fat now but I still have some when I'm at a healthy weight. This thread is actually starting to make me feel worse. Sorry for starting this.

What did you think would happen? Seriously?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I say this as an overweight person.

First of all, if you are 215 lbs at 5'8 you are not a size 14. I'm a 12 and weigh 180, same height.

Secondly - I can't stand when fat women say they have big boobs (again, I do too). Boobs are made of fat. You have big boobs because you are fat.

I don't think it would hurt to start dating - but you have to be realistic about your options. And don't post a pic where you are way skinnier than you are now.

I don't agree with the whole " you have bound because you're fat". I am 5'2, 112lbs and have 32c breasts. All the women in my family are petite-framed but have big chests. I've never been overweight in my life. A woman can have big breasts without being overweight.

To OP: Change your weight and lifestyle to make you happy, not others. I do believe you should for health reasons but I think all Americans would be better off at a normal BMI. If you are comfortable with yourself, don't change. From my experience, most men like women that are in shape and healthy.

You can have big boobs without being fat, but it's hard to be fat and not have big boobs. Being fat and having big boobs makes the boobs less special.

[Anonymous]

Hi OP. I'm 5'7 and 230. I wear a 14 or 16 in jeans, large in dresses.

Weight looks so different depending on where it falls. I have 40D boobs, small waist, big butt and huge thighs Whoever says you can't possibly be that size at your weight is wrong. Because I'm even heavier.

If you feel and believe you are sexy and beautiful you will be fine. My advice is not to mention your exact weight. It's misleading and not necessary. Just post an accurate body pic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Huh? I'm 5'7", 165, and I wear a size 14...

Are you sure you wear a size 14??

I'm 5'6", 156, and I wear a size 8. You can't tell from just height and weight what someone wears.

[Anonymous]

No, never. Not because I find the weight all that unattractive but the behaviors that tend to cause the weight gain aren't compatible with my lifestyle.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what you're looking for. If you trying to attract a guy who's really into a fitness lifestyle like...Nick Bateman then you'll probably have trouble:


If you want a good looking but normal looking guy you shouldn't have too many problems assuming your personality is lovely and you're a fun person to be around. Not everyone is into small women. Take a look around. There's someone for everybody

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Huh? I'm 5'7", 165, and I wear a size 14...

Are you sure you wear a size 14??

I'm with you... I am 6'0" tall and when I weighed 215, I was a 1x.

My guess is that it depends on build and fat distribution. I'm 5'5", 140 lbs and wear a 10/12. At 160, I was a 14 because of gut fat. At 137, I was a 6 because I had no ass.

[Anonymous]

OP, I used to be 260 (at 5'10") and always had interest from guys -- good-looking, slender ones, in fact. The trick was I met them through a message board for a shared interest and we talked online and developed a mental attraction before meeting in person. That may not be applicable to your lifestyle/interests, but that was my experience.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I used to be 260 (at 5'10") and always had interest from guys -- good-looking, slender ones, in fact. The trick was I met them through a message board for a shared interest and we talked online and developed a mental attraction before meeting in person. That may not be applicable to your lifestyle/interests, but that was my experience.

Chubby chaser website?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, I used to be 260 (at 5'10") and always had interest from guys -- good-looking, slender ones, in fact. The trick was I met them through a message board for a shared interest and we talked online and developed a mental attraction before meeting in person. That may not be applicable to your lifestyle/interests, but that was my experience.

Chubby chaser website?

You're just being a jerk, but, no, a band.

[Anonymous]

Butterfly Lounge based in California has an online dating website.
If you carry your weight well, and you're not an aggressive, judgmental woman (aka type A), you might be surprised at the foreign born, educated, good looking professionals (think embassies, IMF, World Bank, graduate students) who might be drawn to date you. And I am not talking about married 40-something or over 50's crowd.
Size 14 is not even plus size.