We are both late 40s though - older than the average DCUM poster. |
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Self: 8 years IT with Masters from JHU only 90.
DH: 10 years Law enforcement with MD only 40. Passive income: 50k. We live hand to month, most month. |
| We both do; me a bit more than him. Lawyers. |
| My spouse makes nothing but saves us $50k in childcare. I make $450k base, can be 2x in a good year. I'm highly educated, but I could do my job with a GED. |
Hand to mouth on $180k? |
what's surprising? it is high COL area after all with our HHI ~200K and 3 kids - we're in the same boat |
Yes, that's surprising. It's roughly double the average HHI of Montgomery county; it's hard to reconcile that with living "hand to mouth". |
Like I said.....don't most people on DCUM make at LEAST $200K? |
| My husband is an equity analyst for a money manger. Base of ~200k plus bonuses which can be significant (500k+) |
This is rare in these days. |
Very rare to make this much as an interior decorator unless you work for celebrities. |
WHAT????? What kind of journalism job does your husband have that pays close to $200k? Most journalists I know are lucky to make $60k. |
um, per person?? no. |
No, she saves you $25K in childcare and saves herself $25K in childcare. |
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Would not say hand to mouth by any means but we are considering having DW quit her job. We have a 3.5 YO so the idea would be to maximize time with the kid before he goes off to school
Problem is that her salary is 200K which is a lot to give up, I do however think it will add some balance to our lives and reduce stress even if it is adding some financial pressure. Before everybody gets their fangs sharpened, I understand that we are fortunate to be facing this decision, just wondering if others have faced something similar when dropping back to one income. |