Any sources for your numbers, PP? |
Source? Mann is a very small school. I know the faces and names of the kids I am mentioning, those who went back to their countries (we had farewell parties), the 5 who are at Basis and the 2 at Latin, those who went to the private schools... we are still in contact with most of them, playdates, playground on weekends etc.. |
It is extremely wrong. At this time, with the current debate with the DME. I do not find it strategic to tell you why... Hint: just look at the % of kids leaving each year (including K) at each grade instead of looking at the decrease in 4th and 5th grade population... |
| ^^can someone spell out what PP is trying to refer to? |
I know Mann is a small school, PP. We probably know each other. I think you are suffering from confirmation bias. Based on what I have heard about DC's classmates, I think the attrition to private schools is higher than you are willing to admit. I don't have the time right now, but when I do I will sit down with the Mann directories over the past couple of years and figure out where all of DC's classmates went. I am certain, though, that very few of DC's classmates were foreign nationals call back home. Furthermore, I note that the OP did not ask about attrition due to private schools at WOTP elementary schools. The OP asked about attrition, i.e., about families that have so little faith in DCPS that they leave WOTP elementary schools before their kids graduate. The 7 kids you concede left Mann for BASIS and Latin might as well be counted in the private school column. They represent families that had so little faith in DCPS that they fled for charters. |
Favorite comment I've ever read on DCUM -- Ivy League grad here paying my shrink bill & reading DCUM as my lacrosse and hockey team and high-status sorority classmates have racked up fortunes and are retiring to islands. -- Mother of Key students who has no planned pathway but anxiety about middle schools. |
^^ that's correct. PP's statement is patently untrue. First of all, there are no "admissions" at Latin or Basis -- it's enrollment to all comers based on sib/lottery. Plenty of private schools admit students at any grade, including 6th. |
| We left our JKLM school before graduation for private, but it's not as common as it used to be. |
FWIW, I am another Ivy League grad who was never wealthy or upper class growing up (we were an immigrant family), who is quite happy with my Ivy Leage degree which eventually enabled me to get a job I like, a lifestyle I like and also was the place I met my (also not wealthy or upper class) husband. So I think most schools are what you make of them - hardly an automatic ticket to suffering
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As a general rule, I find that parents who graduated from Ivy League schools, as my spouse and I did, aren't half as hung up on dispatching their little kids to them as those who didn't, and not just because they're secure in the knowledge that legacy preferences await. As an Ivy alum, you see college friends contending with the same sort of problems adults face everywhere - being unlucky in love, going bankrupt, getting fired or passed over for promotions, struggling to afford college, getting cancer etc. Somewhere along the way, you stop thinking in terms of an Ivy degree innoculating your children against life's hardships. Moreover, you think of brilliant and highly motivated grad school classmates who went to little colleges you'd never heard of. I'd be thrilled for my DCPS kids to get a great education anywhere there's one to be had.
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Another ivy parent who seconds this.^ One important influence my ivy undergrad had on me was to really appreciate the importance of solid preparation. I went to a weak HS with little HW and had a rough time. Most of my peers whether from private or publics like New Trier or Wellesley high breezed through the first year. It was a mistake i am working to avoid with my kids and factored into our decision to pull the out from our wotp school at grade 4 because Hardy was the ms. We want them somewhere challenging enough to push them to develop good study habits. |
Good study habits are taught at home, not in school. |
Won't happen regardless of home influence if a kid gets straight a's without needing to study. That is where we are with our oldest. We have asked the school for more challenging work but it hasn't been provided. |
| As a parent who lives EOTP and will send her rising 4th grader to a WOTP school next year, I applaud you for making the best decision for your child's education as I am with mine. |
| St Albans usually enrolls six and under in the 6th grade. Great year to enter the school as each teacher has a homeroom and teaches four classes similar to an elementary school. |