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Please, I am not an Ivy alum, nor will my kids be going to an Ivy college.
Getting into an Ivy depends on a number of factor and smarts is not the only prerequisite. When we have school and college kids competing in quiz shows etc,. have some compassion. It is just so sad that grown up people on DCUM want to pick on them. I think it is commendable when they try out and more commendable when they can make it to the actual broadcast event. |
Agreed. But Ivy envy is REAL. It makes adults want to pick on college students who are studying their hearts out to be something in life instead of coach surfing, smoking weed and relying on their parents well into their 30's. |
| My non-legacy, non-hooked kid is heading off to an ivy in the fall. DC feels incredibly fortunate to have been admitted against the odds, and knows full well many equally or arguably smarter kids were turned away. During school visits, we found the students we met down to earth. My DC isn't turning into an A -hole because DC will attend an ivy league school, and just looks forward to meeting many interesting other classmates. |
Huh, so true. It always seemed weird that Zuckerberg became a billionaire from an internet company. I guess it wasn't really ingenious since facebooks have been around for a long time and he allegedly stole the idea to put it online from others. Gates, well, he is from the Left Coast. |
Oh so true, PP given that most of our Presidents have come from the Ivies.
And anyone who thinks the Ivies are about reinforcing the establishment has never even stepped their small toe on an Ivy campus. The Ivies, more than anything else, are about independent thought and the ability to make one's own way in the world and enjoy doing so--despite what others think you should be doing. |
Your DC will be thinking and working too hard in that competitive environment to even think about becoming an A-hole. It's always the Others--those who couldn't make it into the Ivies and knew enough to not even try-who project what they think their Ivy personality would be like onto those who actually attended. |
I have no issues with Ivy schools but everyone who attends does not make their own way in the world. Some are bank rolled and connections are powerful. |
| 08:27-- that was funny |
http://theamericanscholar.org/the-disadvantages-of-an-elite-education/ |
THIS is true. I meant to add that the connections are also what makes the ivies so much more advantageous.
Bottom line is that even with those connections, those grads are "making their own way in the world", which in my opinion means that you're living YOUR life, doing what makes YOU happy instead of sitting on the coach sulking at those who are. If you use your connections to help move you from Point A to B, good for you. Isn't that what alumn connections are all about? And all schools have those. |
Are you trying to suggest that because this one author struggled to make small talk with a plumber that there may be something wrong with an Ivy education? That's about as smart as the suggestion that because the girl didn't win there must be something wrong with Harvard. Who the hell makes small talk with "the help"? I let them in, direct them to the problem, then get out of their way and let them work. The main problem I see with this article is that the author felt some sort of obligation to engage the guy in some type of spirited discussion before he fixed her pipes. |
I didn't even sniff an Ivy school coming out of HS, but this is obviously just insecurity and jealousy. |
| Since when is being good at trivia an indication of being smart? |
Never. But jealousy towards ivy students and grads runs so deep it leads to irrational comments like that which reveals the insecurity of the speaker. |