| my sympathies, op. i don't even have children and i don't want to be touched beyond maybe a hug right now and haven't for sometime. and i don't understand why. it makes me feel really guilty, and i look at him knowing i should just suck it up and do it, but i just really don't want to. |
How many sexless marriages do you see on these boards? A common theme is that the sex went away after a baby was born. I agree that 3 weeks isn't anything to panic about. But couples need to make sure they focus on sex as a priority, otherwise there is a non-trivial chance it won't come back. |