I end up looking too conservative because I don't want to look to funky; ie Chicos. |
Have you seen the older Project Runway episodes? Back when it was good? There was the dreaded "mom" challenge, and the designers got to pick another designer's mom to design for. Everyone who had priority went straight for the slimmest moms. It's much easier to design for a slim woman. I think overlooking the not-slims is just lazy, but they all do it. |
Huh? J.Jill sizing is the same as it is everywhere else - numbered sizes (2, 4, 6, etc.) and S/M/L. And they have petites. Their clothing does run large-ish, but the sizing is not like Chico's (1-2-3) sizing - it does conform to industry-standard numbers. |
Cause that shit is ugly as hell. |
Oh, I get why designers would prefer dressing slim people - their clothes look better on slim people. But it's so dumb to ignore a huge demographic - i.e., women who aren't in their 20s and 30s - with a lot of money to spend! |
I'm 51 and I do. A combo of genetic/god given and working my butt off in spin class and body pump, often. |
I do, too. Just turned 40. |
I'm with the "I hate shopping" ladies. The stores all suck. Clothes don't fit, and I'm on a constant quest to find clothes that ARE NOT MADE IN CHINA!!!!! |
So, SO perfect ![]() |
Hit the outlets and the better department stores for sales. Doing that, I get designer for no more than I would pay at Ann Taylor on sale. I've gotten Prada sandals or $60, Vince sweaters or under $100 (the fabric is incredible and they last forever), and lots of Ralph Lauren cheap as hell. The best thing you can do is watch what you eat, and I don't mean starve yourself. I eat anything I want BUT only usually eat 1/2. I stop when I am satisfied, not full. I sometimes carry around 5 extra pounds, and that's when I'm hitting the sugar hard. If you keep your body in good shape, you'll find you can wear anything you want from wherever you want. I'm 51, and the only thing I watch re: what I wear is to avoid obviously teenage clothing. Having said that, Abercrombie jeans are some of the best fitting around and Express makes some killer jean leggings. And buy good lingerie - nothing makes a girl feel prettier than good undergarments. Take care of your face as well, and don't be afraid to save to get some work done down the line, if you want to go that route. We only go around once and I'll be damned if I let people tell me how to dress and that I can't lift anything I want, when I want. |
My mom is 62 years old and 30-40 lbs overweight, yet she still dresses in normal clothes from Gap, Ann Taylor etc. and looks perfectly nice. I could not see her wearing anything from Chicos. Their style just isn't attractive. |
Sorry, but nobody 62 years old and 40-50 lbs overweight is wearing Gap. Gap 2x? Ann Taylor makes Plus 2x? I think you are overesitmating your mom's extra weight. 200 lbs? |
It costs more money to wear clothes when you are older, fatter, and saggier (bulges in all the wrong places!) More expensive clothes even for recreational wear. At least you know your style, and can buy what suits you. Oddly, I find Orvis to be a good place for standards -- blouses, jackets, pants. Very conservative however. I used to like Chicos, but lately just too loud, and cheap looking. "Old ladies from NJ outlet store shopping" style. |
I said 30-40, not 40-50! She wears a size 14, not 2x! At her height, an ideal weight is 130, and she is around 165. |
size 14= 2x. |