Need advice, found out girlfriend used to be a man

[Anonymous]

The crying game.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this a joke? Have you not gone south and realized she looks 'different'? Is this your first gf? First time you've seen a vagina? Seriously try harder next time, troll.

Try a google image search. Educate yourself. You'd be surprised.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this a joke? Have you not gone south and realized she looks 'different'? Is this your first gf? First time you've seen a vagina? Seriously try harder next time, troll.

Try a google image search. Educate yourself. You'd be surprised.

What to search? I've never seen a constructed vagina. Um. Also only ever seen MY vagina. So. Not a whole lot of experience here, either.

[Anonymous]

REALLY OLD THREAD GUYS. Perhaps it was revived by the troll who started it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perhaps this is a fake post, but so what. How exactly is a transgendered woman suppose to gracefully reveal her identity change? It would have to be emotionally difficult. When was she to tell him after the third date, during the throes of passion?

OP, perhaps couples therapy with a specialist will help you both. Do you know why it's bothering you that she used to be a man? Are you feeling that you have been having sex with a man?

Ummm... yes. She should probably tell him sometime between the third date and six months. It is difficult, but it has to be done.

If OP is not a troll, only he can decide if its a deal breaker or not. Hiding it for a long time is a problem. Not being able to have biological children might be a problem. On the other hand, if you love her, you love her.

One of my friends, who is transgender, tells people on the third date. Always. She calls it the "make or break date".

I can't believe someone would wait this long, it can't be real.

And, knowing several transgendered - she wouldn't have kept it from you.

This. My best friend (transgender woman) tells anyone she dates after the first kiss.

This can't be real.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:She is every bit a woman now, even a gynecologist would not know the difference in her vagina. If you love her, you love her.

A gynecologist better be able to tell the difference - lack of a cervix would be one indicator.

Um, it would be bitterly obvious.

In fact, I find it odd that OP could not tell. For one, a "constructed" vagina is basically just a hole dug into the skin- it cannot provide any kind of lubrication or any of the substances that usually characterize a vagina.

So, either OP is very, VERY inexperienced with women, or a troll!

If it did happen to you, OP- I am very sorry.