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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Perhaps this is a fake post, but so what.  How exactly is a transgendered woman suppose to gracefully reveal her identity change?  It would have to be emotionally difficult.  When was she to tell him after the third date, during the throes of passion?

OP, perhaps couples therapy with a specialist will help you both.  Do you know why it's bothering you that she used to be a man?  Are you feeling that you have been having sex with a man?  [/quote]

Ummm... yes. She should probably tell him sometime between the third date and six months. It is difficult, but it has to be done.

If OP is not a troll, only he can decide if its a deal breaker or not. Hiding it for a long time is a problem. Not being able to have biological children might be a problem.  On the other hand, if you love her, you love her. [/quote]

One of my friends, who is transgender, tells people on the third date. Always. She calls it the "make or break date".

I can't believe someone would wait this long, it can't be real.

And, knowing several transgendered - she wouldn't have kept it from you. [/quote]

This. My best friend (transgender woman) tells anyone she dates after the first kiss.

This can't be real. [/quote]

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