how can you disestablish paternity in Virginia?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poor guy, and poor kid having to find out that your Mom is a stank whore. The laws need to change, no should be able to profit from deception.

Maybe when the kid is over 18, the mom has to pay the dad a certain amount. I understand you can't screw the kid over, that's wrong, but letting the mom get off 100% scot-free for encouraging deception shouldn't exactly be the model either.

[Anonymous]

Is disestablish a word?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is disestablish a word?

Do you not know how to google!!!!!! Really????!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Poor guy, and poor kid having to find out that your Mom is a stank whore. The laws need to change, no should be able to profit from deception.

The only stank whore here is the bio dad refusing paternity. Grow up and open a book. People have sex. Sometimes they fall in love sometimes they fall out. Sometimes it's just sex sometimes it's more. Life is like a box of chocolates....


You remind me of my dickhead coworker with 5 kids who needs to stop overpopulating our planet in then name of religion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most states will not allow him to drop paternity.
If he has served as the kids dad for eleven years, he will have to continue.

That is why he must move to Georgia, no other way to get out of those payments

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poor guy, and poor kid having to find out that your Mom is a stank whore. The laws need to change, no should be able to profit from deception.

The only stank whore here is the bio dad refusing paternity. Grow up and open a book. People have sex. Sometimes they fall in love sometimes they fall out. Sometimes it's just sex sometimes it's more. Life is like a box of chocolates....


You remind me of my dickhead coworker with 5 kids who needs to stop overpopulating our planet in then name of religion.

Well I'd rate the mom as a jerk if she knew there was doubt and let another guy think all along he was the dad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/22/magazine/22Paternity-t.html?pagewanted=all

Here is the Times Magazine article about dads who are not the biological fathers and when they have been required to continue to pay child support.

THIS IS NOT ABOUT A FATHER WANTING MONEY BACK.
Question:: How can you disestablish paternity in VA.

That was one of the questions in the OP:

Anonymous wrote: If so what are his chances of getting back the money he has paid to the mother of the said child.

care to answer the other question?
Question:: How can you disestablish paternity in VA.

Dude. Chillax. It's been answered many times: Get A Lawyer.

[Anonymous]

I'd say there is no shot. Generally speaking, the law establishes an irrebuttable presumption of paternity for all children born during a marriage. It's a really crappy thing for the DH involved, but if you look at it from the point of view of the kid, it kind of has to be that way.

You won't make child support go away; if this happened to me, though, I would certainly consider tort actions for reimbursement of such support from the biological father, and consider an action for fraud against the mother. Both would be breaking a bit of new legal ground, but are plausible theories. Also, I think VA still allows fault-based divorces where this might be accounted for in a property settlement. I'd recommend he consult a lawyer: I believe that there are men's rights groups that might provide legal support. It will call for some legal creativity; the default answer will be he's out of luck, and he will need to find someone willing to be aggressive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He raised the child for 11 years. He may not be the biological father, but he is the child's dad. Is he really going to break up with his own kid? And even if he is able to stop paying child support, what kind of asshole would try to impoverish his own kid by demanding the return of years of child support? You and your friend both sound like terrible people.

Don't you think the mother is worse?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd say there is no shot. Generally speaking, the law establishes an irrebuttable presumption of paternity for all children born during a marriage. It's a really crappy thing for the DH involved, but if you look at it from the point of view of the kid, it kind of has to be that way.

You won't make child support go away; if this happened to me, though, I would certainly consider tort actions for reimbursement of such support from the biological father, and consider an action for fraud against the mother. Both would be breaking a bit of new legal ground, but are plausible theories. Also, I think VA still allows fault-based divorces where this might be accounted for in a property settlement. I'd recommend he consult a lawyer: I believe that there are men's rights groups that might provide legal support. It will call for some legal creativity; the default answer will be he's out of luck, and he will need to find someone willing to be aggressive.

so he does the divorce in Virginia and then goes to Georgia and stops payments?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is disestablish a word?

Do you not know how to google!!!!!! Really????!!!

OP is an asshole

[Anonymous]

It isn't fair to man who is not father of child nor is it fair to child. The mother, however, should have to repay, with interest and penalties, all money non father has paid. I am a female but I deplore it when eomwn lie and cheat and a man has to pay for a child not his. Mandatory DNA tests at birth is the answer. I also believe that a man should have absolute rigjt to his child when birth mother chooses to put child up for adoption.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is disestablish a word?

Do you not know how to google!!!!!! Really????!!!

OP is an asshole

I'm not OP. I was a separate poster with a separate question that you people still used made up facts from OPs post (yes you made up facts for his question) and then applied them to my question as well. Please utilize reading comprehension when relying on dcum. Do not read into people's questions. They are not asking for that to happen especially on this board. Twat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It isn't fair to man who is not father of child nor is it fair to child. The mother, however, should have to repay, with interest and penalties, all money non father has paid. I am a female but I deplore it when eomwn lie and cheat and a man has to pay for a child not his. Mandatory DNA tests at birth is the answer. I also believe that a man should have absolute rigjt to his child when birth mother chooses to put child up for adoption.

Thank god nobody asked yu

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It isn't fair to man who is not father of child nor is it fair to child. The mother, however, should have to repay, with interest and penalties, all money non father has paid. I am a female but I deplore it when eomwn lie and cheat and a man has to pay for a child not his. Mandatory DNA tests at birth is the answer. I also believe that a man should have absolute rigjt to his child when birth mother chooses to put child up for adoption.

If the matter only involved the mother and the man then yes. BUT those funds are actually being taken partly from the innocent child. Yes the mom is an ass but don't punish the child.