A woman with a lot of body hair- Men: What do you really think?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Same, I trim or shave because it’s more comfortable but if any guy made comments, that’d be the last time he got anywhere near. Happily married now and DH couldn’t care less.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Totally agree. There is something that is such a turn off about a guy who cannot handle a woman in her actual state.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im lasering my hoo ha before it goes gray. I think they go gray eventually so I’m taking care of that before that happens because you can’t laser gray hair

If you didn't want it laser before, why laser now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Not every woman can catch a good man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Well, by your definition, a majority of men are "prissy AF" according to the NIH. But here's the kicker - even more women than men are prissy:

"Most women (64.3%) and men (62.2%) preferred complete removal of female pubic hair."

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10309412/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Well, by your definition, a majority of men are "prissy AF" according to the NIH. But here's the kicker - even more women than men are prissy:

"Most women (64.3%) and men (62.2%) preferred complete removal of female pubic hair."

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10309412/

That is based on a survey of Brazilians

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Well, by your definition, a majority of men are "prissy AF" according to the NIH. But here's the kicker - even more women than men are prissy:

"Most women (64.3%) and men (62.2%) preferred complete removal of female pubic hair."

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10309412/

You are “proving” nothing except internalized misogyny exists. Not shocking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Well, by your definition, a majority of men are "prissy AF" according to the NIH. But here's the kicker - even more women than men are prissy:

"Most women (64.3%) and men (62.2%) preferred complete removal of female pubic hair."

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10309412/

That is based on a survey of Brazilians

It's also not an NIH report, it's just an academic article posted to their website. Huge difference.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seriously, men! I shave every 2 days everywhere while in shower, and have a tidy triangle, no armpit or other body hair. But waxing is painful and expensive!

Does a freshly shaved P make a difference for men vs a waxed P?? Like, does it fell/look differently ?

There are two problems with shaving. First, shaving is much more likely to leave bumps or irritation, which is possibly the worst outcome of all aesthetically. Second, you can't see the whole area yourself (this would apply to any DIY effort, including waxing). I once hooked up with a lady who had the area completely shaved - except her butt was hairy! I just thought that was an extremely weird look. She probably didn't even think about it and didn't realize that that area is very visible to men during many sexual positions.

[Anonymous]

Dear women,

Unless and until you don't care whether your man showers, uses deodorant, gets haircuts, trims his nails, brushes his teeth, and otherwise undertakes any efforts at personal hygiene, shut up about how men are terrible people if they don't accept women in their natural state.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear women,

Unless and until you don't care whether your man showers, uses deodorant, gets haircuts, trims his nails, brushes his teeth, and otherwise undertakes any efforts at personal hygiene, shut up about how men are terrible people if they don't accept women in their natural state.

Women already do ALL of those things. And no woman is complaining about having to brush her teeth or shower. We're talking about not wanting to spend several thousand dollars annually on waxing all the hair off our nether regions to please men. Some women do that because THEY like it, which is fine. The point is that it's not a reasonable expectation of all women, especially when the standards for men are so much lower (and cheaper, and less painful).

How about you expect your partner to have the same level of personal hygiene you have. So if, as a man, you think a woman should have to be required to remove most of her body hair, you have to do the same. If you're ready to wax your legs, your balls, laser off your armpit hair, shave twice a day to keep your face smooth, etc., you are more than welcome to insist the women you date do the same.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear women,

Unless and until you don't care whether your man showers, uses deodorant, gets haircuts, trims his nails, brushes his teeth, and otherwise undertakes any efforts at personal hygiene, shut up about how men are terrible people if they don't accept women in their natural state.

You are proving the point. Women do all this and all expected to do much much more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.

Well, by your definition, a majority of men are "prissy AF" according to the NIH. But here's the kicker - even more women than men are prissy:

"Most women (64.3%) and men (62.2%) preferred complete removal of female pubic hair."

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10309412/

How embarrassing for you. You thought the United States National Institutes of Health spent tax payer money to conduct a study on preferences on female public hair?

[Anonymous]

Woman here, 40ish, hetero, married. I’ve never done anything more than shave/wax the bikini line and trim up the front, and never had any complaints from DH or previous partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear women,

Unless and until you don't care whether your man showers, uses deodorant, gets haircuts, trims his nails, brushes his teeth, and otherwise undertakes any efforts at personal hygiene, shut up about how men are terrible people if they don't accept women in their natural state.

Women already do ALL of those things. And no woman is complaining about having to brush her teeth or shower. We're talking about not wanting to spend several thousand dollars annually on waxing all the hair off our nether regions to please men. Some women do that because THEY like it, which is fine. The point is that it's not a reasonable expectation of all women, especially when the standards for men are so much lower (and cheaper, and less painful).

How about you expect your partner to have the same level of personal hygiene you have. So if, as a man, you think a woman should have to be required to remove most of her body hair, you have to do the same. If you're ready to wax your legs, your balls, laser off your armpit hair, shave twice a day to keep your face smooth, etc., you are more than welcome to insist the women you date do the same.

Don’t forget chest hair removal!