A woman with a lot of body hair- Men: What do you really think?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a guy, I never understood the hairless vaj trend and always hated it.

On the other hand, hair anywhere else— especially face, armpits or nipples—is a huge turnoff. Even the vaj, really, should be waxed down below with the bush only on top.

Now that I say it out loud, I guess I really don’t like hair on women except for a triangle above the hooha. Oh well.

Honestly, attitudes like this are one reason I stopped waxing. Because yes, some men prefer women who are mostly hairless except for some very specifically groomed hair for aesthetics. But like this PP, they'll start out claiming they don't mind hair, and actually hat the "hairless trend." I think this is because they rightfully know that some people speculate that a preference for hairlessness is a sign of pedophilia.

But then they'll go on to detail a level of hairless that, for most women, will cost thousands of dollars a year and require a ton of effort and logistics. Simply keeping the pubic area waxed (PLUS maintaining a perfect "triangle" of hair above, as though most women's hair grows in a perfect triangle) would mean, for me, monthly waxing appointments, weekly trimming and treatment of the skin to prevent ingrown. And my reward for this is that I get to have sex with a man who is merely satisfied with this level of effort, who views it as simply appropriate and bare minimum. Excuse me but: f*** no.

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

How long have you been single, with that attitude?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a guy, I never understood the hairless vaj trend and always hated it.

On the other hand, hair anywhere else— especially face, armpits or nipples—is a huge turnoff. Even the vaj, really, should be waxed down below with the bush only on top.

Now that I say it out loud, I guess I really don’t like hair on women except for a triangle above the hooha. Oh well.

Honestly, attitudes like this are one reason I stopped waxing. Because yes, some men prefer women who are mostly hairless except for some very specifically groomed hair for aesthetics. But like this PP, they'll start out claiming they don't mind hair, and actually hat the "hairless trend." I think this is because they rightfully know that some people speculate that a preference for hairlessness is a sign of pedophilia.

But then they'll go on to detail a level of hairless that, for most women, will cost thousands of dollars a year and require a ton of effort and logistics. Simply keeping the pubic area waxed (PLUS maintaining a perfect "triangle" of hair above, as though most women's hair grows in a perfect triangle) would mean, for me, monthly waxing appointments, weekly trimming and treatment of the skin to prevent ingrown. And my reward for this is that I get to have sex with a man who is merely satisfied with this level of effort, who views it as simply appropriate and bare minimum. Excuse me but: f*** no.

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

Love this

[Anonymous]

Seriously, men! I shave every 2 days everywhere while in shower, and have a tidy triangle, no armpit or other body hair. But waxing is painful and expensive!

Does a freshly shaved P make a difference for men vs a waxed P?? Like, does it fell/look differently ?

[Anonymous]

Bush

[Anonymous]

Gimme a bush, trimmed on the sides any day of the week!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Seriously, men! I shave every 2 days everywhere while in shower, and have a tidy triangle, no armpit or other body hair. But waxing is painful and expensive!

Does a freshly shaved P make a difference for men vs a waxed P?? Like, does it fell/look differently ?

Sounds perfect - when can we meet?

No, don't need anything waxed.

[Anonymous]

I'm cool with hair anywhere on a woman, but don't prefer it on her face. That said, one of the most beautiful women I've ever dated had a very, very light lining above her lips. Still, she was objectively stunning.

Interestingly, into my 40s I started to be attracted to DW's hairy armpits. Probably has something to do with the forbiddenness of that area. Luckily, DW plays along.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a guy, I never understood the hairless vaj trend and always hated it.

I had a friend in the adult content industry. It probably started there. They do it because there's more to show/see that way.

That's also why the female performers tend to be small (like 5 feet tall) -- the contrast in size compared to the male performer looks better.

Wait I thought it was common knowledge that everyone being shaved in p0rn was a direct result of trying to public lice off adult film sets? The result: it’s now how people think down there “should” look. Way less dangerous than the chocking thing but still irritating to have to conform to.

I shave my pits regularly, my bikini line in the summer if I’m wearing a regular swimsuit (love board shorts so much), and my legs every month or so. Luckily I have light body hair so in don’t offend the sensibilities of the passer by and I’m not interested in sleeping with heterosexual men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a guy, I never understood the hairless vaj trend and always hated it.

On the other hand, hair anywhere else— especially face, armpits or nipples—is a huge turnoff. Even the vaj, really, should be waxed down below with the bush only on top.

Now that I say it out loud, I guess I really don’t like hair on women except for a triangle above the hooha. Oh well.

Honestly, attitudes like this are one reason I stopped waxing. Because yes, some men prefer women who are mostly hairless except for some very specifically groomed hair for aesthetics. But like this PP, they'll start out claiming they don't mind hair, and actually hat the "hairless trend." I think this is because they rightfully know that some people speculate that a preference for hairlessness is a sign of pedophilia.

But then they'll go on to detail a level of hairless that, for most women, will cost thousands of dollars a year and require a ton of effort and logistics. Simply keeping the pubic area waxed (PLUS maintaining a perfect "triangle" of hair above, as though most women's hair grows in a perfect triangle) would mean, for me, monthly waxing appointments, weekly trimming and treatment of the skin to prevent ingrown. And my reward for this is that I get to have sex with a man who is merely satisfied with this level of effort, who views it as simply appropriate and bare minimum. Excuse me but: f*** no.

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

I would be happy to take a look!

[Anonymous]

I’ll take a big bush woman any day of the week.

[Anonymous]

He shaves his bush so I figured he wouldn't like hair on me either. I'm not hairy and can't grow a bush.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a guy, I never understood the hairless vaj trend and always hated it.

On the other hand, hair anywhere else— especially face, armpits or nipples—is a huge turnoff. Even the vaj, really, should be waxed down below with the bush only on top.

Now that I say it out loud, I guess I really don’t like hair on women except for a triangle above the hooha. Oh well.

Honestly, attitudes like this are one reason I stopped waxing. Because yes, some men prefer women who are mostly hairless except for some very specifically groomed hair for aesthetics. But like this PP, they'll start out claiming they don't mind hair, and actually hat the "hairless trend." I think this is because they rightfully know that some people speculate that a preference for hairlessness is a sign of pedophilia.

But then they'll go on to detail a level of hairless that, for most women, will cost thousands of dollars a year and require a ton of effort and logistics. Simply keeping the pubic area waxed (PLUS maintaining a perfect "triangle" of hair above, as though most women's hair grows in a perfect triangle) would mean, for me, monthly waxing appointments, weekly trimming and treatment of the skin to prevent ingrown. And my reward for this is that I get to have sex with a man who is merely satisfied with this level of effort, who views it as simply appropriate and bare minimum. Excuse me but: f*** no.

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

This. And I never had a problem attracting men. I’m happily married for almost 20 years now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I trim and shave as I see fit, do not wax at all because it's too expensive and time consuming, and any man who doesn't like it can move right along. You want a doll who dedicates her entire life to making sure her body looks exactly the way some man wants it to, hire a prostitute. I'm a person and I am too busy and interesting for this BS.

How long have you been single, with that attitude?

I'm happily married to a man who loves my body and has never once complained about my body hair.

[Anonymous]

I think men who have very rigid opinions on body hair are prissy AF. It’s SUCH a turnoff.