Invited over to watch a movie downstairs in the basement. . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Swinging ALWAYS starts in basements? So there are no swingers without basements?

Oh no, we bought a condo!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They're swingers. That's how it starts.

yes, agree

We were "approached" in a similar manner. Apparently, the networks are large!

They must think you're a hot couple!

yuck

what happened?

To make a long story short, once the wife had one too many, she came out with the info. We had not socialized with them much at all. In fact, they had invited themselves over to our friends - were their neighbors - when the truth came out. She asked to see a computer to show us some of the swinger websites around - and then asked use to join in on the fun. Apparently, there was one (is one still?) in Annapolis.

Her husband was mortified and barely said two words. But he has a mistress, she claims, who lives in Europe.

It was so weird.

From that night on, we ignored her phone calls, and when we were outside at our friend's on a nice summer evening, as soon as we heard her, we ran in! It was awkward at first, but she finally got the hint.

These swinger sites are impressive! In fact, she listed people in our 'hood who were part of the crew!

[Anonymous]

Is this rated X or R?
If are do they have a theater? If x are you two hot?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What they are doing isn't strange. It's just different from what you like. You guys don't have much in common. Just decline politely. No biggie.

Yup. Some people have very nice basements (not me). We often do movie night on friday night. If our basement were nicer, we'd watch down there.

[Anonymous]

Wow. We have a finished basement with a big flat-screen TV, a bunch of squishy seating and a small refrigerator. We specifically designed it so we could have people over to watch sporting events, movies, etc. We had an Oscar party in the basement. The living room area on the main floor isn't really conducive to hanging out and watching TV.

Now I'm having serious doubts about the idea of inviting anyone outside of our circle of closest friends, lest they think we're weird, geeks, or - gasp! - swingers.

Holy shit.

[Anonymous]

I am amazed by the apparent prevalence of swingers, as reported on DCUM. I have learned many swinger pickup lines and signals on DCUM, to which we may now add, "Would you like to watch a movie in our basement?" Who knew? I clearly need to get out more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe they have a theater room in their basement. Or do people not do that here?

Good point!

Exactly what I thought. My parents have a theatre room with the chairs and projector and sound and I love it.

[Anonymous]

Seriously? Watch a movie? That's code for let's fuck. Everyone knows this.

[Anonymous]

Watching movies at someone's house , as the sole purpose of a get together, seems weird to me. Now, I can see having people over for a sports event, Oscar party, election nights, etc. I can also see it a girls night kind of thing, drinking wine and watching chick flicks. But, just having couples over for a movie just seems weird. It's not really like you can talk and socialize. I dunno-the more I think, the more believe it is some sort of swinger grooming thing!

[Anonymous]

I'm seriously thinking they are swingers, no joke. Why do they keep harping on having a movie night in the basement repeatedly when OP declines? Kind of weird.

[Anonymous]

Ha - I seriously thought the swingers line was hilarious when PP first typed it out, but now I'm starting to think some of you actually believe it might be possible!

The reality of it is that here's a couple who are suddenly homebound with a child, and maybe they really liked movies before having the kid. So they invite you over, because their baby goes to sleep early, and they just aren't thinking bout the 5 year old.

I know some people in neighborhoods with close together houses who might go to the neighbors house with a baby monitor. That's not everyone's choice, but I know plenty of people who do it.

BUt again, if you're not movie people, or you have no idea what their set up is like, this might seem like a weird invitation. I'd personally invite adults over for drinks and talking. (Pre kids we didn't go to the movies often, but when we did it was nearly always with friends, so watching movies together isn't that weird.)

The next time they ask, I'd shrug and say, that's great for you with Charlie, he is probably asleep by 7:30, but what would we do with our Jack? It's just not really ever going to work for us.

Or, maybe they're swingers. Who knows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Watching movies at someone's house , as the sole purpose of a get together, seems weird to me. Now, I can see having people over for a sports event, Oscar party, election nights, etc. I can also see it a girls night kind of thing, drinking wine and watching chick flicks. But, just having couples over for a movie just seems weird. It's not really like you can talk and socialize. I dunno-the more I think, the more believe it is some sort of swinger grooming thing!

With OP's five-year-old kid hovering around. Right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ha - I seriously thought the swingers line was hilarious when PP first typed it out, but now I'm starting to think some of you actually believe it might be possible!

The reality of it is that here's a couple who are suddenly homebound with a child, and maybe they really liked movies before having the kid. So they invite you over, because their baby goes to sleep early, and they just aren't thinking bout the 5 year old.

I know some people in neighborhoods with close together houses who might go to the neighbors house with a baby monitor. That's not everyone's choice, but I know plenty of people who do it.

BUt again, if you're not movie people, or you have no idea what their set up is like, this might seem like a weird invitation. I'd personally invite adults over for drinks and talking. (Pre kids we didn't go to the movies often, but when we did it was nearly always with friends, so watching movies together isn't that weird.)

The next time they ask, I'd shrug and say, that's great for you with Charlie, he is probably asleep by 7:30, but what would we do with our Jack? It's just not really ever going to work for us.

Or, maybe they're swingers. Who knows.

Next time they ask, you can say: hey, would it be OK if we bring a couple of cool friends visiting from Brazil? Based on their reaction, you can judge...

[Anonymous]

Who knew the word "basement" was a Rorschach test? Some people think of home theaters, and some of you immediately think of swinging.

[Anonymous]

The swingers are all in Ashburn.