Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First step STOP BLAMING OTHERS - she raised you in a way but you can choose to go the other way.
Once you recognize that your personality is to blame you can start to change.
wrong
Once you recognize what happened and can look at the situation from a different perspective you can see what went wrong and why you ended up how you did.
this is not blaming others
woment tend to live their lives for others until the age of 40. After that they live for themselves
Forget the loonies who think you can change your life by blaming yourself. Forget the judgemental freaks and be selfish for a while and move on.
I know what I am talking about as I am similar in many ways. But I surround myself with people who know what kind of treatment I do not like and who care enough to not bully me into doing stuff for others
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