Sex on vacation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not having sex on vacation there is something seriously wrong with you.

Agree with this, and I say this as someone who had little to no sex on vacation. It was a sign our marriage was in trouble. Still married and still in a frequency of 1x a month or so, but at least now I have zero expectations on vacation.

Even typing that last sentence makes me sad.

Any insight into why things are as such?

[Anonymous]

Traveling and vacationing with children.

Many years ago at a dinner with my mom friends, someone asked a variation of this question, and two of us answered, almost in unison, bathroom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DW definitely gets a facial on vacation.

DH definitely gets pegged on vacation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are not having sex on vacation there is something seriously wrong with you.

Agree with this, and I say this as someone who had little to no sex on vacation. It was a sign our marriage was in trouble. Still married and still in a frequency of 1x a month or so, but at least now I have zero expectations on vacation.

Even typing that last sentence makes me sad.

I actually had the opposite experience. If you have a failing sex life vacation becomes some irrational litmus test.

If you have a thriving sex life one week is meaningless. If you have a great relationship and great sex you don’t even think “okay we better do it in the bathroom to prove we are still into each other”.

That’s wild people live that way

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it pretty much a guarantee that your sex life sees an uptick as soon as you get on vacation? Or have you had a different experience?

Know it can depend on different factors.

Most certainly - vitamin d(ick) does wonders for me on vacation. My primal instincts kick in and my husband wonders what has shifted in my world. I can’t keep my hands to myself. I’m sure my resort wear lends itself to my self confidence and high libido. My husband doesn’t seem to mind, he’s most relaxed on vacation and enjoys my flirting and advances.

Once we get home, life becomes routine and our sex life is compartmentalized to weekends mostly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DW definitely gets a facial on vacation.

DH definitely gets pegged on vacation.

Well good for you. Lots of fun at the airport during bag inspection.