Grief of a Failed Marriage and Jealousy

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Have a baby by yourself, OP. Use a sperm donor.

Horrible idea. A child deserves a mother and a father. Of course circumstance can derail our best laid plans but it is reckless and selfish to intentionally produce a child with the preemptive knowledge that they will never know their father. You would be perpetuation generational trauma and dysfunction just to get your own personal satisfaction. Don't do this.

I don't think it's a horrible idea in general at all. Plenty of SMC out there who create wonderful lives for their children.

But this OP? Yes. A horrible idea.

[Anonymous]

Stop looking for answers on a message board, for one.

Get a therapist, for two.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop looking for answers on a message board, for one.

Get a therapist, for two.

OP has been told this many, many times lol. It's not looking like it is going to happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Have a baby by yourself, OP. Use a sperm donor.

+1 if you really want a kid

[Anonymous]

OP - just remember and embrace the fact that we are all on our own unique journey in life.

The fact that you are born in America and living a safe and comfortable life puts you well ahead of billions of other humans alive right now. Appreciate that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you're finally out of this marriage you have only been posting about 6 years

How'd you know it was the same poster?

Not PP, but I'm pretty sure it's the same poster as well. I read the OP and thought "This again?" They post the same thing again and again and again.

Seriously? Wanting and craving attention like that is so sad. Maybe if she put that energy into her marriage, things might’ve been better.

Being an ahole and piling on a person who is hurting is sad. Get a life and stfu if you have nothing nice to say.

[Anonymous]

Not everyone is fit to be a parent. Don’t be so hard on yourself.