| New York City by far—especially the people who were born and bred there. |
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Nice is a tough word. I don't know exactly how to define it.
New Yorkers and New Englanders are not friendly but there is a real sense of solidarity. People help at the first sign of trouble. People in Southern states are friendly but I just don't trust it. It feels so fake to me. I don't feel like the Southern friendliness is consistent - it depends who you are and what you look like and sometimes if you just left the room. |
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Iowa !
There's Midwestern nice. And then there's Iowa nice. |
In general, people react with kindness to those who exhibit kindness and authenticity. You likely come across as fake and cynicsl. |
| Ohio! I visit my daughter 3-4 times a year and I just love the atmosphere. Strangers are nice! I always feel a sense of disappointment when I return to Maryland. |
Did Trump annex them? |
| There have nice people and not nice people in every state I’ve visited. The nice people far outweighed the not nice people. |
Yes you are. |
NYers don't waste time. "Wrong number.<click>" That's what is so nice about them. Every conversation is less than a second long. |
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| Iowa. Iowa nice is real. |
Agree. Iowa. |
lol. If your first response to an unfamiliar experience is to exclaim “BS” to people who’ve had very different experiences, then I understand why you might view New Yorkers as “Abrasive “. You get back what you give out. |
Case in point. |
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I can tell you the worst.
Oklahoma. I have never met anyone from Oklahoma who hasn’t screwed the he** out of me. |