Nearly 17 year old son is sexually active

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:2 forms of birth control!!!!!

Teens are so fertile.They need birth control and back-up. I see patients as a women's health NP.

My own 18 year old son was sexually active with a girlfriend through much of senior year and this all made me very nervous because I really fear teen pregnancy. The guy has no control over the decision to terminate or not. I have girls too and the unwanted pregnancy concern was greater with my son because he wouldn't be the one making the decision.

Maybe in addition to the boy’s condoms, the girl could get one of those small iud’s made just for tweens / teen girls?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^ yeah if it was already a relationship and one turns 18 in the midst of it ?

I’m the pp who mentioned the laws. I’d like to think law enforcement wouldn’t put any effort into prosecuting cases like this, but if (for example) a parent were angry it’s a risk.

Lots of Virginia websites cite the issue of one party turning 18 and there not being an exception for an existing relationship. For instance: https://www.sshw.com/blog/2018/07/are-there-romeo-and-juliet-laws-in-virginia/

[Anonymous]

So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

What if the marriage and relationships never come and the boys get sucked in by p*rn, hentai, tr*ns propaganda...spending their lives in front of a screen ordering hormones online
I'd be relieved if my son was like OP's.
I'd be frankyl

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

What if the marriage and relationships never come and the boys get sucked in by p*rn, hentai, tr*ns propaganda...spending their lives in front of a screen ordering hormones online
I'd be relieved if my son was like OP's.
I'd be frankyl

We will arrange everything at the appropriate time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes

No
Hell no

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

What if the marriage and relationships never come and the boys get sucked in by p*rn, hentai, tr*ns propaganda...spending their lives in front of a screen ordering hormones online
I'd be relieved if my son was like OP's.
I'd be frankyl

We will arrange everything at the appropriate time.

DP. I like our way better. My teens choose nice partners and are enjoying their youth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

In your country child brides are also a thing

Or domestic violence etc no country is perfect she. It comes to sex and women or men

Sex is a natural part of life.

Protection is also

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mom of a 17 year old girl here. No, don’t tell her parents.

I agree. I was sexually active with my boyfriend at 17 and we were responsible and it was fine. If his mom had told my parents it would’ve probably destroyed my relationship, my entire social life for the last 2 years of HS, and I was already prone to depression. It’s not their business if she doesn’t tell them. It’s personal and I know they are kids and it seems wrong, but you really can be ready at that age. Just keep the conversation going with your son.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

What if the marriage and relationships never come and the boys get sucked in by p*rn, hentai, tr*ns propaganda...spending their lives in front of a screen ordering hormones online
I'd be relieved if my son was like OP's.
I'd be frankyl

Absolutely. It’s a minefield out there now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So...no more AP Calculus BC? Just shagging?

I believe the prior-person was trying to just be humorous here. But in humor there is often some truth. In my country, the schoolchildren are not permitted to engage in this sort of foolishness. No.

High school is the time for studying. The marriage and the relationships will come later. Pupils must put their utmost focus on their studies.

100% agree

[Anonymous]

What a gift that your son feels comfortable talking to you. I wouldn't want to jeopardize that, if it were me.

[Anonymous]

It's also the teens girls responsibility to use birth control. She can get it online now or through Planned Parenthood. Plan B is available too.

All parents MUST teach their kids about birth control and family planning.