your q makes no sense. why would op be new in career if she oversees so many functions? and would someone not know if they were in an interim role? |
Bs. You became more important but someone else gets the promotion over you? Are you reporting to the same boss or the new guy? How was your performance being measured exactly and were you meeting the numeric targets? What about soft “happiness” type targets? |
PP. You're right, it is a bind. That's why it is hard to bring it up. Maybe I need to get up with the times, but I remember growing up in the 80's/90s that one of the reasons women (not all women of course) made less than men was that they weren't good salary negotiators. Men had been doing it for decades, even centuries, and women still had an "I'm just lucky to be here" attitude and wouldn't haggle. Maybe it's no longer prevalent due to gender, but I have definitely seen where 2 people do pretty much the same job and the pay disparity is pretty big because one person negotiated salary better than the other. As for OP, we've now seen that she has only been there a year. That's not very long and she is still building her reputation within the organization. But again, it's never a good look to complain about salary when you are being given LESS work. |
Except it sounds like no matter what the volume of work is, the man is being paid more than op to do half of what op has been doing. |
In an environment that doesn't want to pay women equally, if women try to negotiate, they will be punished. It's not about "negotiating salary better." I'm female and the negative responses I've had to trying to negotiate salary shocked the men I know. It was fine, I just left and made the money I knew I was worth, but if a company is consistently paying men more for the same work, "salary negotiation" is the pretext, not the explanation. |
But OP may as well try to negotiate salary and level before just leaving. |
Maybe they split the functions and hired him to take over what they see as the current highest value functions. They left you with stuff to do more thoroughly than before...that "focus" is a negative signal. Maybe those will become more strategically important maybe not. You are right to look. If you feel you have nothing to lose, might have a meeting where thevsgenda is you are excited about their indication of growing importance for the functions you manage and ask for targets and milestones tied to increased salary. |
Go for it. But "maybe the men are just better at negotiating" is not what's happening here. |
I had offer rescinded when I tried to negotiate a 10k raise. The total comp was into the 200k so 10k was a super small reasonable ask. |