op- this is an excellent point about pay equity. Any tips on having the conversation? |
| also op - it does feel slightly odd to essentially say 'hmm it seems like you think i'm not competent to handle my role alone and thus are bringing in someone to buffer. Care to pay me more money?' |
| I’m not denying that pay discrimination exists but I wanted to point out that it’s super common in organizations that new higher are paid a lot more than people who have been there a long time because they need to compete in the labor market to hire new people. At some organizations, you can point this out and they will make a pay adjustment. At other organizations, the only real cure is to quit and go someplace else. It’s dumb but it’s one reason people move around a lot. I guess the real question is what do you think you can get on the market. |
So without DEI, how is one supposed to get rewarded who is not „like them“? |
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I think you say I am glad you recognized this job was too much for one person and I am looking forward to training Bob to take over those functions. I am concerned that you will be paying bob substantially more than me, even though he’ll be doing half the work that I’ve done on the past, and about the same as what I’ll be doing going forward. I want to believe it’s not because he’s a man, but rather because you realized that you need to pay more to get someone qualified to do this work. I’m asking you to review my salary and adjust if upwards to equal bobs. If there’s some reason you think that’s not appropriate, I’d love an opportunity to discuss why.
Something like that…. |
Then give honest feedback. |
Go look on the Ask a Manager website. She has a lot of great tips on this. |
| Unless OP was part of the hiring process or oversees budgeting, how would they know that the new guy is getting more money for less work? And then on top of that, OP will be performing less work now and wants to be paid more because it's not fair! Realistically, how would one even bring this up without seeming a bit entitled. And this is a perceived slight. What if new guy is a better negotiator than OP has been over the years. What if other peers in the org are making more for the same work, not even half, because they were better negotiators? I would try and figure that out than assuming its gender based. |
The honest answer is to change jobs which has attendant risks. But people who pick you as part of a hiring process are usually more invested in your success. Again...loyalty is pretty dead and allies are hard to find. Being freshly chosen offsets that unless you screw up. |
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Op - to answer some qs:
- I have only been there a year - I know he is being paid more due to his title and the salary bands for that title |
Don't do this! This isn't about Bob at all. OP, this is about you and whether you are being paid market rate and also whether your leveling reflects your responsibilities. You have some tangible evidence that your organization considers your responsibilities to be 2 levels above you...though it's possible they will say that they hired Bob at the higher level because they expect the responsibilities to expand significantly (I've seen this happen). If you think that you are underpaid, then tell them that. Don't invite direct comparisons to Bob...that will just make you seem petty and make it easier for your concerns to be dismissed as petty. |
1 year really isn't enough time in my opinion for you to ask for a pay increase. Put another year in at the rescoped role then ask. I thought you might have been there for a while if you had so many functions under your control. |
Agreed. Sounds like you were in an interim role as the organization figured out its needs. The huffing and puffing seems a bit premature. Are you very new in your career? |
When I was in a male-dominated industry (science) woman would either 1) stab other women in the back or 2) run away when asked for back up. So I agree with your assessment and also believe that women are part of the problem too. |
Wait, so you've imagined a whole world where OP makes less than the men around her because they're better negotiators, but she's not even supposed to bring this up because she might seem entitled? You've really identified the bind she's in, apparently without realizing it. |