Is this tacky to give cleaner for Christmas?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We don't give bonuses in fact it should be the other way around you give gifts to clients so they should be giving you something. However we don't care either way .

What in the....?!!? We're not talking about clients of an investment bank here. Really hope you're just adding to the rage bait here. There aren't real people who think this way. To OP--I'm actually almost impressed she could even think of that cringey of a gift. Amazing!

We give chocolates, a nice card, a Christmas drawing from our kids saying thank you and a cleaning's worth cash bonus. These women make my life so much better and I truly appreciate their hard work and how they often go above and beyond for our family.

And if you can't genuinely feel that way, you can at least be wise enough to treat people who have full access to everything you own respectfully!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"These people?"

Yeah this is the grossest part of the entire thing

[Anonymous]

We don't tip, but pay about 25-50 more than they quoted and increase with raises, so they get tipped every 2 weeks when they work.

As someone who has done 1099 work, I would rather have this situation than a random 200 or whatever bonus. A long-term client who pays consistently, even a bit above the market, is worth more.

[Anonymous]

yes, tacky. Too bad you can't buy your friend a clue for Christmas bc girl is clueless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We don't tip, but pay about 25-50 more than they quoted and increase with raises, so they get tipped every 2 weeks when they work.

As someone who has done 1099 work, I would rather have this situation than a random 200 or whatever bonus. A long-term client who pays consistently, even a bit above the market, is worth more.

I appreciate what you're saying but guarantee that they do not - every time you pay - think they’re getting a $25-50 tip. It’s just what you pay now

[Anonymous]

We have a cleaning service that is monthly and is a company that doesn’t necessarily send the same crew each time. It varies and I interact with/pay the company, not any individual cleaner. In this situation, I feel weird just randomly giving a “bonus” to whoever happens to show up nearest to Xmas. In previous years I’ve handed some $20s out but sometimes I don’t see them and don’t do anything.

[Anonymous]

It’s not tacky maybe a bit out of the normal and less than what is typical which would be the price of one cleaning but you all are rude.

[Anonymous]

Beyond being decent, it's just just enlightened self interest to generously tip and gift the person who cleans your home if you appreciate their help and want them to keep cleaning for you.

I've never had a service with different crews.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t care for the soap gift, but I also don’t understand why you have to tip every person that crosses the threshold of your house. House cleaner charges X amount and you agree to it. The end.

100%

[Anonymous]

$20 max

[Anonymous]

Is it easy for you to replace your cleaner? It's probably easy for the cleaner to replace you if she's any good at all.

[Anonymous]

My cleaner has a wait list

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t care for the soap gift, but I also don’t understand why you have to tip every person that crosses the threshold of your house. House cleaner charges X amount and you agree to it. The end.

Because my house cleaner has worked for me for 14 years and is a lovely person. I always giver a month's pay for a holiday bonus. Why? Because I like her and I can afford it and I'm not a cheap $h!t.

I apologized to our new cleaner who we've been using for our second home because I sent her a bonus via Zelle instead of putting cash in a Christmas card for her--I wanted to make sure she got it before the holidays and I don't have her address.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have a cleaning service that is monthly and is a company that doesn’t necessarily send the same crew each time. It varies and I interact with/pay the company, not any individual cleaner. In this situation, I feel weird just randomly giving a “bonus” to whoever happens to show up nearest to Xmas. In previous years I’ve handed some $20s out but sometimes I don’t see them and don’t do anything.

That's a different scenario than if you have one person for an extended period.

[Anonymous]

I give $109 bill in a card. Feel like this isn’t enough but I was stretched thin this year. Would never give a soap making kit.