The Coldplay cheater is a classic example of women never taking blame

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?


Because she's a trollop who broke up a family. Duh.


She's also apparently twice divorced (or soon to be twice divorced) while divorcing her first husband in 2018.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:she's a dope, but she has a point that there are serial killers that have received fewer death threats that she has.

she had an inappropriate affair with her boss--plenty of people have done a lot worse, and haven't been shamed globally.


Maybe we should bring back global shaming. I have a list (mainly men) that deserve to be shamed.


This woman does not deserve global shaming.
Anonymous
It sounds like she takes responsibility. She left her job. She and her husband are divorcing and were already separated. She is embarrassed about the fact that it was her boss, and admits that was what made it wrong and why she was ashamed.

I agree with her that the amount of internet hate and criticism around it was probably excruciating to live through. I don't think her saying that means she's not taking responsibility for the inappropriate relationship at work, it's just an accurate description of what it would be like to have one of your worst decisions broadcast around the world. I cannot even begin to imagine. I do feel really bad for her kids.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think complete silence would have been the best tactic.

She probably wants her views on the record for her great-great grandchildren.

When she dumps the Cabot name all should be good.


And I think you don't like women. Please, silence their voices so they can't be heard!!


I am a woman. And if I was in her shoes, and a VP of HR, I'd STFU because I'd want everyone to forget about the living "cliche" that I had turned myself into.

There are times when it's okay to put your side out there. But honestly nobody kindly cares about the backstory of why she was making out with her boss in public.

The only people she needs to get right with are her kids. And if I were them I'd want my mom to STFU about her dumbassery so my friends and acquaintances wouldn't run across it.

I feel equally bad for Tiger Woods' kids. He's an embarrassment as mom's husband. An as a dating father and car driver.

Also feel bad for Belichick's older previous girlfriend.

And Maria Shriver's family.


Do you have sympathy for Maria Shriver herself? She was repeatedly warned that she was marrying a pig who sexually harassed women left and right, but she went ahead and married him thinking her case will be different. She knew exactly who Arnold was but married him anyway.


Yeah, i have sympathy for Maria. I believe she loved him. It's beyond the pale that a guy with all that wealth, fame, and looks couldn't even avoid screwing and impregnating the much-beloved housekeeper in his own home. On a sliding scale of awfulness, his behavior is pretty close to the worst you can treat a spouse before actions become crimes.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.


She wants more attention. She has no empathy for her poor kids and does not want the story to die.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.


The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think complete silence would have been the best tactic.

She probably wants her views on the record for her great-great grandchildren.

When she dumps the Cabot name all should be good.


And I think you don't like women. Please, silence their voices so they can't be heard!!


I am a woman. And if I was in her shoes, and a VP of HR, I'd STFU because I'd want everyone to forget about the living "cliche" that I had turned myself into.

There are times when it's okay to put your side out there. But honestly nobody kindly cares about the backstory of why she was making out with her boss in public.

The only people she needs to get right with are her kids. And if I were them I'd want my mom to STFU about her dumbassery so my friends and acquaintances wouldn't run across it.

I feel equally bad for Tiger Woods' kids. He's an embarrassment as mom's husband. An as a dating father and car driver.

Also feel bad for Belichick's older previous girlfriend.

And Maria Shriver's family.


Do you have sympathy for Maria Shriver herself? She was repeatedly warned that she was marrying a pig who sexually harassed women left and right, but she went ahead and married him thinking her case will be different. She knew exactly who Arnold was but married him anyway.


Yeah, i have sympathy for Maria. I believe she loved him. It's beyond the pale that a guy with all that wealth, fame, and looks couldn't even avoid screwing and impregnating the much-beloved housekeeper in his own home. On a sliding scale of awfulness, his behavior is pretty close to the worst you can treat a spouse before actions become crimes.


When you lie with pigs.

Of all the men she could love, she chose to love and uplift a predator. She probably didn't care because she thought it won't happen to her. Nope. She got what she deserved.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.


The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.



Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.


The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.



Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.


This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:All she has done is make it worse by talking about it at all.

Shame. Shame. Shame.


+1. Probably got a few for the interview. Stupid book will be next
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.


She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.


It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.


She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.


Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.


The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.



Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.


This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.


They are attacking her narcissistic tendencies, which they should.
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