The Coldplay cheater is a classic example of women never taking blame

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.

She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.

It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.

She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.

Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.

The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.

Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.

This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.

They are attacking her narcissistic tendencies, which they should.

What lies are being made up here?

People are allowed to continue talking and judging. No one here is trying to communicate with her!

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.

She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.

It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.

She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.

Exactly. Top executive with high compensation. Professional ethics should have kept her from laying a hand on this guy. They both were sleazy, careless, and both are now unemployed. Exact details of the power dynamic don't matter. Or whether they were separated. Little people get fired all the time for any reason. They showed terrible judgment as senior executives.

If they had brazened it out, they also would have been okay. It's because they acted funny with the knowledge that it was not okay that it blew up.

Even weirder she said her ex-husband was at the concert AND she was drunk.

How does this help the public forget?

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Because he declined to comment. When he poses for photos spreads complete with outfit changes we can all laugh at him too.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.

She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.

It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.

She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.

Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.

The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.

Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.

This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.

They are attacking her narcissistic tendencies, which they should.

Lies. You don’t know her.

Disgusting.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.

She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.

It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.

She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.

Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.

The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.

Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.

This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.

They are attacking her narcissistic tendencies, which they should.

Lies. You don’t know her.

Disgusting.

Seeking attention after publicly cheating and trying to claim victimhood and rationalize your cheating is narcissistic behavior. She may or may not be a narcissist, but she is definitely displaying narcissistic tendencies. She needs to fade away into anonymity which is where she was before a cheating scandal put her in the limelight. That is better for her children and ex. But nope, she choses to seek more attention.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Because he declined to comment. When he poses for photos spreads complete with outfit changes we can all laugh at him too.

Some people know that sometimes the best option is to shut up and lay low. It is so tempting to keep trying to get the final word and set the record straight when the better move is to leave the stage.

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Women hate being held accountable

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Anonymous wrote:I just read the NYT article and she absolutely took the blame.
also, she was separated and he told her that he was as well. She says that they had never even kissed until that night.

Oh well if that's what she says then . . .


We do need to stop blaming women for men's poor choices, but Cabot made plenty of poor choices of her own here.

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Anonymous wrote:she's a dope, but she has a point that there are serial killers that have received fewer death threats that she has.

she had an inappropriate affair with her boss--plenty of people have done a lot worse, and haven't been shamed globally.

Maybe we should bring back global shaming. I have a list (mainly men) that deserve to be shamed.

This woman does not deserve global shaming.

I agree. I feel sorry for her.

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I understand why she wanted to sit for an interview. People will never forget, so she understandably wants people to see her as human. She was dumb but the world has been cruel.

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Anonymous wrote:It's baffling why this woman is going to the media now. Her embarrassing dalliance was a brief moment in time. And has nearly been forgotten by now. Why put yourself center stage again?

Some people love attention, even for bad reasons. I'm assuming she has some influencer or social media gig, and that's why she wants to remind the world of her transgressions.

+1.

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Anonymous wrote:I understand why she wanted to sit for an interview. People will never forget, so she understandably wants people to see her as human. She was dumb but the world has been cruel.

No reason to double down on the dumb

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Anonymous wrote:When my friends wife cheated and he confronted her she blamed him. Go figure. The man never cheated, he never abused her, etc....Yet she gaslight into thinking he did something wrong.

In fact of in were to guess most women who cheat will blame everyone but themselves.

so will will men

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Anonymous wrote:When my friends wife cheated and he confronted her she blamed him. Go figure. The man never cheated, he never abused her, etc....Yet she gaslight into thinking he did something wrong.

In fact of in were to guess most women who cheat will blame everyone but themselves.

so will will men

Men don't justify cheating as much as women justify theirs. Women twist themselves into pretzels to justify why they cheated. And they will never admit that they were totally wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently she was separated, he was not. Why is she the one being dragged incessantly?

Obviously because she is a woman. I think she made a mistake, but she was separated so, NBD. Bad decision to f your boss, though.

She isn't the one being dragged incessantly. That is just made up to support ones bias / agenda. You can do a review of news articles to see it isn't true. The CEO was dragged plenty. She is currently being spoken about because she made a statement.

It is appropriate for him to get more blame/criticism because he was the CEO. She also deserves blame for having an inappropriate workplace romance, but he deserves more. That's just part of being in a position of authority -- you have more responsibility and more culpability when mistakes are made. You also generally make a lot more money and get more respect and deference. It's a package deal.

She was the head of HR! Of all positions that should know about inappropriate relationships - it would be the head of HR. She was also in a position of authority and high responsibility.

Doesn’t mean she deserves death threats or global shaming.

No, she doesn't deserve this but what does she want now, an apology from the world? 99.9% percent of the population didn't threaten or even shame her.

The acknowledgment that she doesn’t deserve it is definitely a step in the right direction.

Next up - report this trash thread to stop the unwarranted, continued attacks on her.

Oh please. No one is threatening her on this thread. She is not that important.

This thread is certainly part of the global shaming - which she does not deserve.

Can you believe people are attacking this woman who they don’t know and making up lies about her? Really disgusting.

They are attacking her narcissistic tendencies, which they should.

Lies. You don’t know her.

Disgusting.

Seeking attention after publicly cheating and trying to claim victimhood and rationalize your cheating is narcissistic behavior. She may or may not be a narcissist, but she is definitely displaying narcissistic tendencies. She needs to fade away into anonymity which is where she was before a cheating scandal put her in the limelight. That is better for her children and ex. But nope, she choses to seek more attention.

More fabrications. You don't know her and are making a ton of assumptions.

It's really disgusting.