Any competitive sports/divorce parents on here right now?

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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like he's unlikely to show. I would just not tell him. If he wants to look it up, he can. He no longer has a wife to tell him obvious things and he might as well get used to it.

That’s my first instinct, but I’m wondering if this will come back to haunt me during future legal proceedings and make me look uncooperative.

The figure skating club has parent emails that contain all of this information. In late October he told me he was going to contact the club secretary to be added to the email list, but I’m guessing he hasn’t and doesn’t want to admit that to me.

I think it's reasonable to tell him again "Here's how you sign up for the club email list", because you're not explicitly inviting him to the specific event like the kids were worried about. And that should be enough to avoid looking uncooperative. But really, fear of looking bad does not mean you have to be his calendar secretary forever! That's wife-work, and he doesn't have a wife now.

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