Sister withheld info

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If younger sister is much wealthier than the elder sister, then yes, it is insulting because it suggests the younger sister is trying to be “tactful” in a condescending way that shows she doesn’t think they’re in the same league.

Thank you for putting into words why I am always super irritated (internally, of course, I don’t say anything) when my one mom-friend will be cagey and vague about her child attending a birthday part of some kid my kid barely knows, or gets invited to a soccer tournament when my son is in a different birth year grouping than hers so of course I don’t expect him to be invited to 2014 events if he’s a 2015. I want to be like, I’m not jealous, you can just answer honestly when I ask benignly what you’re up to this weekend, you don’t have to avoid the question like you didn’t hear or say “oh, this and that!” Like I’ll fall apart if I hear he’s at a party my kid wasn’t at when my kid doesn’t know the birthday kid

[Anonymous]

If the country is in the Middle East I’m getting “not without my daughter” vibes

[Anonymous]

OP, MYOB. Your mother should too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mother & eldest sister attempt to scold others when they don’t share

Yet they never share. Simply MYOB

I mean if you’re going on a trip for a month, presumably you’re excited. Why wouldn’t you want to share it? If someone responds negatively, deal with it the way an emotionally healthy person would. This is so passive aggressive.

Acc to OP, the decision to travel was made abruptly and possibly prompted by a relative’s poor health. So no, not necessarily something to be excited about or want to share. But you go ahead with your judgement.

LOL. You’re going to judge me for not seeing an update. Mmkay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mother & eldest sister attempt to scold others when they don’t share

Yet they never share. Simply MYOB

I mean if you’re going on a trip for a month, presumably you’re excited. Why wouldn’t you want to share it? If someone responds negatively, deal with it the way an emotionally healthy person would. This is so passive aggressive.

Acc to OP, the decision to travel was made abruptly and possibly prompted by a relative’s poor health. So no, not necessarily something to be excited about or want to share. But you go ahead with your judgement.

LOL. You’re going to judge me for not seeing an update. Mmkay.

No, for calling someone a passive aggressive emotionally unhealthy person. And not bothering to read the thread.