If GLP-1’s were free and OTC

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Anonymous wrote:It wouldn’t. It extremely accessible now and many people don’t want to do it and even if they do it’s not a guarantee that you’ll lose weight because it’s still work and even if you lose weight you still have the same personality you did when you were fat.


Good response!


Fat people have better personalities than skinny ones, so the nicer, kinder, and funnier formerly fat women would be more fun to be with....


I have not found this to be true at all.

An inability to take care of yourself speaks volumes about many other aspects of people's personality.


+1
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Anonymous wrote:The idea that these drugs make everyone skinny is just not reality. In 18 months I’ve gone from a BMI of 35 to a BMI of 28. I’m smaller but not skinny. You’d still have to be ok with thick girls to get with me.


Does it stop causing weight loss at some point or is it just a matter of time before you reach BMI of 20?


Bone density goes, especially if you’re not eating good nutrition or proteins with the fewer calories you are fueling your body with.
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Anonymous wrote:The dating market will give us men access to better quality women. We won't be stuck with the women who think because they are thinner and attractive they can get away with a crappy personality. Now the women who were MIA on OLD, at bars etc because they assumed their weight would be a handicap will now come out in the open.

But assuming these now formally fat women don't suddenly become stuck up as well lol.

It's crazy how a woman just because she attractive she thinks her personality isn't as important.


Honest question- what’s stopping you from approaching overweight women now? If personality and values and character is more important (which I agree with you), and you feel that thin women tend to be lacking in these areas because they think being thin means they can be mean and it won’t matter, why not just date for personality alone and ignore weight? Why does GLP usage among women give you “access to better quality women?” You have “access” to all women as it is. Fat or thin. They’re all out there.


For me I’m just not physically attracted to them.


Hilarious. I guess you're one of the "better quality "guys ? I can't think of a better encapsulation of hypocrisy than this right here.

"personality and character really matter, and I'm a good judge of this because I have good character myself. Oh but what matters to me more than anything is actually how much you weigh. So don't appear in front of my own gross face if you're not thin."


Being fat demonstrates a defective personality and character though.


Character, values and disorders- yes

Personality is a choice or a disorder - not about being obese or vice versa.
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Anonymous wrote:The meanest, most manipulative woman I've ever met had been formerly kind of chubby but then got very skinny (this was pre-GLP1s, I don't know how she lost the weight). She'd never been fat, just like midsize, but she clearly had a huge chip on her shoulder about it because she believed being thin meant she got to treat other people terribly, and that every man was obsessed with her. It was really annoying.

She got married and then gained the weight back and now she's nicer again.

Make of that what you will.


She was hangry lol
Anonymous
For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.
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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases
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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Did other men treat you differently too, or just your husband?
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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Yeah, PP here, and I agree. It’s not just “healthy weight” - they want teetering on underweight. I am also now a 21 BMI, and I feel a world of difference. But it’s not natural. I’m taking GLPs and eating 900 cal/day
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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


BMI 25 is clinically overweight.

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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Yeah, PP here, and I agree. It’s not just “healthy weight” - they want teetering on underweight. I am also now a 21 BMI, and I feel a world of difference. But it’s not natural. I’m taking GLPs and eating 900 cal/day


BMI 21 is in the middle of the normal range.

I suppose normal seems “thin” when everyone around you is fat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The dating market will give us men access to better quality women. We won't be stuck with the women who think because they are thinner and attractive they can get away with a crappy personality. Now the women who were MIA on OLD, at bars etc because they assumed their weight would be a handicap will now come out in the open.

But assuming these now formally fat women don't suddenly become stuck up as well lol.

It's crazy how a woman just because she attractive she thinks her personality isn't as important.


High value high status men already have their pick of women in the dating market.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Did other men treat you differently too, or just your husband?


I didn’t think of other men when I was married . Was too busy with childcare and work. After divorce in my 40s men hit on me on the street . But that’s after I had lost weight and started regularly workout, dye my hair, take care of my skin. Even 10+ younger men approach now: in museums, stores, bars. I’m 47 and have a pretty face+20 BMI
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Yeah, PP here, and I agree. It’s not just “healthy weight” - they want teetering on underweight. I am also now a 21 BMI, and I feel a world of difference. But it’s not natural. I’m taking GLPs and eating 900 cal/day


BMI 21 is in the middle of the normal range.

I suppose normal seems “thin” when everyone around you is fat.


I’m the PP and I got from 25 to 19-20 by regular sports and diet. Never took meds. No saggy skin whatsoever
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:The dating market will give us men access to better quality women. We won't be stuck with the women who think because they are thinner and attractive they can get away with a crappy personality. Now the women who were MIA on OLD, at bars etc because they assumed their weight would be a handicap will now come out in the open.

But assuming these now formally fat women don't suddenly become stuck up as well lol.

It's crazy how a woman just because she attractive she thinks her personality isn't as important.


It’s amazing that people as stupid as this PP feel confident in sharing their idiotic thoughts with the world.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese.


In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases


Did other men treat you differently too, or just your husband?


I didn’t think of other men when I was married . Was too busy with childcare and work. After divorce in my 40s men hit on me on the street . But that’s after I had lost weight and started regularly workout, dye my hair, take care of my skin. Even 10+ younger men approach now: in museums, stores, bars. I’m 47 and have a pretty face+20 BMI


Maybe it was mostly that you had your kids in tow when you were bigger but then by the time you lost weight you were going places without your kids?
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