+1 |
Bone density goes, especially if you’re not eating good nutrition or proteins with the fewer calories you are fueling your body with. |
Character, values and disorders- yes Personality is a choice or a disorder - not about being obese or vice versa. |
She was hangry lol |
| For the men here who want a thin woman, I’m curious what constitutes thin? For most of my life, I had a BMI of 24-25 (also being 5’8, so fairly tall) and was made to feel that that was unacceptable for the general male population. It seems women have to be very thin-not just not obese. |
In my experience as a woman who was 19-20 BMI in my 20s, 24-25 in my late 30s and then went back to 20 BMI in my 40s - yes, the male attention changes in reverse order from BMI, in pretty drastic geometric progression between 20 and 25. The men "read" 19-20 BMI as pretty and youthful, even if the woman is not young. Ex husband didn't want to sleep with me when I was 24-25, and I was never fat! They need really thin women to get it up in many cases |
Did other men treat you differently too, or just your husband? |
Yeah, PP here, and I agree. It’s not just “healthy weight” - they want teetering on underweight. I am also now a 21 BMI, and I feel a world of difference. But it’s not natural. I’m taking GLPs and eating 900 cal/day |
BMI 25 is clinically overweight. |
BMI 21 is in the middle of the normal range. I suppose normal seems “thin” when everyone around you is fat. |
High value high status men already have their pick of women in the dating market. |
I didn’t think of other men when I was married . Was too busy with childcare and work. After divorce in my 40s men hit on me on the street . But that’s after I had lost weight and started regularly workout, dye my hair, take care of my skin. Even 10+ younger men approach now: in museums, stores, bars. I’m 47 and have a pretty face+20 BMI |
I’m the PP and I got from 25 to 19-20 by regular sports and diet. Never took meds. No saggy skin whatsoever |
It’s amazing that people as stupid as this PP feel confident in sharing their idiotic thoughts with the world. |
Maybe it was mostly that you had your kids in tow when you were bigger but then by the time you lost weight you were going places without your kids? |