| How do you think it would change the dating market? |
| It wouldn’t. It extremely accessible now and many people don’t want to do it and even if they do it’s not a guarantee that you’ll lose weight because it’s still work and even if you lose weight you still have the same personality you did when you were fat. |
Good response! |
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The dating market will give us men access to better quality women. We won't be stuck with the women who think because they are thinner and attractive they can get away with a crappy personality. Now the women who were MIA on OLD, at bars etc because they assumed their weight would be a handicap will now come out in the open.
But assuming these now formally fat women don't suddenly become stuck up as well lol. It's crazy how a woman just because she attractive she thinks her personality isn't as important. |
Attractive women really live in an entirely different world than everyone else. Why wouldn’t they think that’s just how the world works? |
Honest question- what’s stopping you from approaching overweight women now? If personality and values and character is more important (which I agree with you), and you feel that thin women tend to be lacking in these areas because they think being thin means they can be mean and it won’t matter, why not just date for personality alone and ignore weight? Why does GLP usage among women give you “access to better quality women?” You have “access” to all women as it is. Fat or thin. They’re all out there. |
For me I’m just not physically attracted to them. |
Hilarious. I guess you're one of the "better quality "guys ? I can't think of a better encapsulation of hypocrisy than this right here. "personality and character really matter, and I'm a good judge of this because I have good character myself. Oh but what matters to me more than anything is actually how much you weigh. So don't appear in front of my own gross face if you're not thin." |
Let’s assume all women become thin then. And you’re physically attracted to all of them now. Assume most men feel the same way you do. Now they’re ALSO physically attracted to all of these awesome women that they previously wouldn’t date because of their weight. So what’s in it for the women? What equivalent thing are you going to do to make yourself more attractive to the women? Because women who are suddenly thin and also have amazing personalities aren’t going to date just anyone. |
| I always wonder what would happen to the global food supply in everyone ate half as much! |
You literally just said personality was just as important as physical appearance. I guess what you meant was, you need BOTH a great personality AND a gorgeous physical appearance. What are you planning to offer them? Other than the assertion that you only want them if they don’t gain weight? |
PP never said gorgeous. He said personality and thin. If he has a great personality and is thin, why is that not enough to attract a thin woman with a great personality? I mean, it is not enough now because competition for thin women is high. But if most women were thin, PP will have a better chance of getting with a thin woman. Nothing wrong with PP's wish. Lol |
You’re acting like women are objects. Like, if all of them are more attractive (aka thin in this case) then there are more to go around. Like having more sandwiches at a picnic. Maybe once these women become thin and realize that men are suddenly interested in them, they’ll start realizing that the men better be offering something they actually want, or they’d rather just stay single. Considering that marriage is bad for a woman’s health and good for a man’s health, I wouldn’t count on these women being suddenly interested in being “taken” by the PP |
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What would happen? Fewer middle aged men who look like they're pregnant. But maybe not. I don't think that take up of GLP-1 meds would be nearly as high among overweight men as among overweight women. Men don't tend to think their weight is what's holding them back from getting more women to pay attention to them.
Also, remember that these meds decrease your weight but they don't make you toned. You still have to exercise your muscles to look toned. Men will be more apt to accept "thin" but flabby women than vice versa. A man who is not toned is generally not appealing to women, whereas men don't seem to care about flab as much as overall mass/bulk in a woman. As for me, I'd take a man with a few extra pounds who has a lot of muscle over a thin but flabby dude who can fit into a size medium t-shirt. |
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If you drop too much weight on these meds, it will make you look very aged and saggy, there will be skin overhanging over P instead of your former belly. It has to be done in combination with workouts and life changing diet.
Many overweight people (men and women) just don't want to make these changes. Once they stop the meds, the weight gain would come back even to a larger extent. The extra weight often IS related to some personality or psycological aspects that I'm not attracted to. So by at large it won't change much, IMHO. |