Would you consider dating someone who sees/has seen escorts?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s no difference between having sex with a prostitute or a woman who is not your wife. They are both equally wrong. All sex outside marriage is sinful.

How about premarital sex, Prudence?

There’s no difference between premarital sex and prostitution. All sex outside of marriage is a sin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

Men been doing that for a hundred thousand years or more.

World's oldest profession. Any guy who says he has never climbed the whorehouse stairs, is also a liar.

It sounds like you've frequented escorts/prostitutes frequently - do you share this with your partners?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Curious what your thoughts are.

No I would not consider them.

I’d assume they can’t maintain a real friendship or relationship and think they can buy phony ones to show off at events.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s no difference between having sex with a prostitute or a woman who is not your wife. They are both equally wrong. All sex outside marriage is sinful.

How about premarital sex, Prudence?

There’s no difference between premarital sex and prostitution. All sex outside of marriage is a sin.

I think it's positively sinful that you keep inflicting this idiocy upon us. Please stop sinning.

[Anonymous]

That's the kind of secret anyone should take to the grave, so if you are dating anyone stupid enough to blab about it (or if they are 10x more stupid and have an arrest record), then yes you have to dump them.

That level IQ, can they even tie their own shoes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That's the kind of secret anyone should take to the grave, so if you are dating anyone stupid enough to blab about it (or if they are 10x more stupid and have an arrest record), then yes you have to dump them.

That level IQ, can they even tie their own shoes?

In some countries it's legal, and in some cultures it's less stigmatized. Personally I think even legalized prostitution comes with a lot of issues so it's not fool proof, but someone discussing it in other areas might not be so shocking as it would be here.

[Anonymous]

if you think about it, he takes you out, buys you things, you sleep with him or he just pays for it and doesn't have to spend time or money with the person.

Probably comes out ahead by not dating someone

[Anonymous]

Nope. I bucket escorts and prostitutes as a vice and addiction, no thanks. Damaged goods. Not going to monitor that krap.

[Anonymous]

Life’s too short, find a cleaner d!ck.

[Anonymous]

Some of your husband's frequently see escorts. Keep telling yourself otherwise.

[Anonymous]

You would never know if they did that or not they won't admit to it but if they did that would be a red flag for me and I would end it.

Lot of your husbands are doing shady things after work around here. I can't say more bc when I did on another thread it got deleted. but know I've seen it with my own eyes. There are hook up places around here...Good luck trying to single these men out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:No. "Escorts"? Basically, he paid for a prostitute. I find men who do that skeevy. Just because you paid more doesn't make you any better than the loser who is driving around the street looking for a $10 hooker.

These is no such thing as free sex. Every man is paying for sex one way or another.
All men invest time, money, and effort in dates, gifts, and entertainment with the expectation of getting laid. Paying an escort is just a more direct way to get to the same result.

To the OP, no, and this PP's attitude is why I wouldn't. Men who think women are things that can be purchased have an underlying misogynistic mindset that will seep into every aspect of your life. Even if they separate women into categories (Madonna/whore) they still think they're things and that men are paying for all of them, just with different currency. Like PP seeing every second of time you spend thinking about or hanging out with a woman as some kind of personal expense in a transaction that she now owes you payment for. Gross mindset, gross person, not going to be a healthy relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. "Escorts"? Basically, he paid for a prostitute. I find men who do that skeevy. Just because you paid more doesn't make you any better than the loser who is driving around the street looking for a $10 hooker.

These is no such thing as free sex. Every man is paying for sex one way or another.
All men invest time, money, and effort in dates, gifts, and entertainment with the expectation of getting laid. Paying an escort is just a more direct way to get to the same result.

To the OP, no, and this PP's attitude is why I wouldn't. Men who think women are things that can be purchased

The sex isn't purchased but you're still paying for it.

If sex wasn't at least on the table as a possibility, you definitely wouldn't be buying her meals, movie tickets, flowers, etc. You can be mad about it if you want, but you know it's a fact.

[Anonymous]

When I was young and stupid I dated guys who had done this, and it was not worth it.

I ended up needing surgery after my HPV cells turned pre-cancerous and those men did not know how to treat women with respect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. "Escorts"? Basically, he paid for a prostitute. I find men who do that skeevy. Just because you paid more doesn't make you any better than the loser who is driving around the street looking for a $10 hooker.

These is no such thing as free sex. Every man is paying for sex one way or another.
All men invest time, money, and effort in dates, gifts, and entertainment with the expectation of getting laid. Paying an escort is just a more direct way to get to the same result.

To the OP, no, and this PP's attitude is why I wouldn't. Men who think women are things that can be purchased have an underlying misogynistic mindset that will seep into every aspect of your life. Even if they separate women into categories (Madonna/whore) they still think they're things and that men are paying for all of them, just with different currency. Like PP seeing every second of time you spend thinking about or hanging out with a woman as some kind of personal expense in a transaction that she now owes you payment for. Gross mindset, gross person, not going to be a healthy relationship.

I'm the OP, and I think I agree with you. FWIW I personally am not considering dating someone like this, but I saw a post on reddit that inspired it.

Many men on there (and apparently on here) view sex and relationships as transactions, so they are fine paying women to have sex with them and don't consider it negative, even if they would apparently never tell anyone (so clearly it's still shameful enough to keep it a secret). I know one person in my DHs wide (WIDE) circle that tells people he has seen prostitutes. All of the other men were so grossed out and have 99% dropped him from the group. I'm sure that wasn't the single and only reason they dropped him, but I think they just got tired of hearing him discuss women like that.