Almost 6 year old gets upset when we sing or dance?

[Anonymous]

My DD has always done this. Shes 14 now and listens to headphones in the car, so she doesnt notice as much now, but she always hated me singing or tapping my fingers to the point where she would scream for me to stop.

She can listen to music she likes that's loud.

She has sensory processing disorder, anxiety, and possibly adhd and autism (in process of getting her tested).

She's ok and relatively functional, but in hindsight, I wish I had tested her earlier and done OT when she was very young. Its harder to introduce interventions now that shes 14.

(We did do OT about 4th and 5th grade and it was somewhat helpful.)