
Everyone, both men and women, are attracted to 20 somethings at the peak of their fertility. The difference is women dont make fools of themselves by openly ogling random 20 something men and embarrassing their partner in the process. The difference is basic social awareness. The other difference is 90% of women could actually succeed in hooking up with some 20 something hot guy, even if it was a one time thing, whereas 90% of men will have zero chance with any of these young women. |
I love checking out hot young guys. |
Men will pay for sex and they will give him the time of day. Men are very transactional. Women will say gross eww etc but for the man to satisfy his urge he will do the transaction and move on like nothing happened. He won't need extensive therapy and wine nights. |
Unless OP lives in the red light district in Amsterdam, these women are NOT prostitutes and not for sale. They'd likely laugh in his face if her dad bodded, bloated, wrinkled and balding 40 something husband even attempted to speak to these hot young girls. Most of them probably have their own great jobs or education, and sexy boyfriends their own age. Forget your delusional porn fantasy |
As a man I agree with you. When a woman regardless of age wants to have a sex with you, my God you have to do very little effort to get the p**y. If she is the one who wants it, she is literally begging you with her actions to come get it. For men it's different. |
I am afraid to inform you that some married men are okay being sugar daddies here in America. And some hot 20s are selling their services. You can find across college campuses all across the DMV. Again men are transactional creatures okay it's not that hard to understand. |
What's so funny about this thread is it really points out how delusional and just totally un self aware most men are. The way theyre talking in this thread as if their similarly middle aged wives are the only thing blocking them from being with these 20 somethings is so funny. Like if they were single and alone 20 somethings in bikinis would be flocking to them 😂 This is why there are so many Reddit threads of men asking/begging their wife to open the marriage, and then crashing out when they do and no woman wants them, meanwhile their "ugly" wife has men lined up to be with her and date her.
Middle aged men are so out of it, they dont realize that young women are pickier and more expectant than ever and none of them are even going to talk to some middle aged guy unless he's paying her rent. Young, single men are constantly whining about how hard the dating market is, and that's for gorgeous, successful ones, not some washed up balding 45 year old. Hello! |
I view the 20-something boy at my work as I view my son and his friends. I have to keep reminding myself to speak to him as an adult. He actually came to me for advice about buying a gift for his girlfriend last week; I think he views me as a mom or aunt type person, and I'm fine with that. I would be appalled if one of my same-age colleagues was perving on him, to be honest. We need to nurture and protect young people. |
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Well I'm still attracted to them and at almost 40 I have hooked up with and dated many 20 something men. But most of these older men cannot do the same |
Me too. I think it’s fairly normal. If he’s outwardly ogling then he should work on that - don’t be creepy. And same with cleavage, I can’t help but look! |
I don't think men are delusional. There is a difference between looking, dreaming and hoping. We just look and appreciate and dream of what if. That's all. You are taking way too deep lol. When I was 23, older women over 40 were totally invisible to me. I was interested in hot women around my age. At 47 today, I am not delusional fo think that a 22 years old woman will be salivating over me. She as an array of young men her age to be with. |
OK, so you are childless... |
I wish you could post your picture so I can take my son and his friends to avoid you like the plague. |
Are you related to Leonardo Di Caprio lol |