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You are determined to be offended. If you never told him not to do this, it is on you. Now use your words and inform him this is a good to be eaten in moderation, and supply him with some tasty to teenage boys other options for his snacks. |
No one is being mean, just direct. OP has a teenager and from it sounds like, multiple children. I don’t know what you mean by new. It is very well known that teenagers, particularly boys, eat a lot. |
Pasta salad is not a meal. Eating over a pound of cold pasta salad is not normal. A small, snack-sized portion to nosh on is the appropriate amount. Delis have those tiny quarter pound containers, that's an appropriate amount to snack on. A 1lb container is four times that size. |
Exactly. You can tell him to eat a more varied diet, and point him to other foods, and remind him it's not nice to finish off something in the dead of night without asking others whether they want some... but your son NEEDS food right now. He's in a growth spurt. He won't eat like that every day, but he might be ravenous for two weeks, and sleep like the dead, before the end of that particular growth spurt. And then he'll revert to a more normal diet. And then in 6 months, he might get another growth spurt. Adjust accordingly. Do not blame. |
My 3 boys would beg to differ. |
Oh give it a rest. Food is to be eaten. |
| Second dinner is a thing. Get ready. |
| Op, you need to stop. Your kid is HUNGRY. He didn’t eat everyone’s Easter candy. He didn’t binge on a tub of ice cream. He ate pasta salad, it doesn’t matter what kind or where you bought it, Whole Foods or Safeway it doesn’t matter, feed your teenager and don’t shame him for being hungry!!! |
That was always our take. No one person needs to consume something purchased for everyone. |
I sort of addressed this already. He wouldn't binge eat that, he's binge eating more premium snack items. If I made cheap bulk quesadillas or enchiladas and put them in the fridge or freezer, he'd barely touch them and want to order DoorDash. But if we bought the same items from WF's deli, they'd quickly disappear from the fridge. So is he really starving from growing or is it just self-centered and spoiled gluttony? |
One pound of cooked pasta is not that much. This is a 1 lb deli container: |
| He's growing. It's amazing how much food they can eat. |
This is the kind of food dysfunction I’m talking about. Since you did not educate your family on this, I’m guessing they disagree with you. Also I’m quite sure many other people disagree and think pasta salad can be a meal. |
Who made you the boss of pasta salad consumption? |
He’s your child. We have no idea, but you don’t seem pleasant so there is that. |