Lingerie Question

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a new guy who like lingerie. It's never been my thing but I'm happy to give it a go. But I don't get it. I realize it's visual for the man. But after I put the babydoll or bustier on, then what? Do we go about making dinner? Watch a movie? I seriously can't put on a piece of clothing only for it to be taken off 10 min later--or is that the point? I need someone to explain this to me like I'm 3 and don't understand why I need to wear a coat in the winter when we're going from the house to the car.

You do not know men. Men are visually simulated and they typically like lingerie. It is that simple. And if the woman is wearing lingerie, it usually/can leads to sex. Is that simple enough??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a new guy who like lingerie. It's never been my thing but I'm happy to give it a go. But I don't get it. I realize it's visual for the man. But after I put the babydoll or bustier on, then what? Do we go about making dinner? Watch a movie? I seriously can't put on a piece of clothing only for it to be taken off 10 min later--or is that the point? I need someone to explain this to me like I'm 3 and don't understand why I need to wear a coat in the winter when we're going from the house to the car.

You do not know men. Men are visually simulated and they typically like lingerie. It is that simple. And if the woman is wearing lingerie, it usually/can leads to sex. Is that simple enough??

+1. Lingerie also shows an effort to look sexy, which is sexy in and of itself. My ex insisted on wearing stretched out granny panties all the time. Comfortable I’m sure. But sexy, no.

[Anonymous]

There's something sexy about lingerie that is better than naked! It accentuates and adds rather than detract, and ideally it can stay on during!

But as other's have said, effort is part of it. I think it show's your partner your trying.

[Anonymous]

Some people don't bother to wrap their Christmas/birthday gifts either. Lazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a new guy who like lingerie. It's never been my thing but I'm happy to give it a go. But I don't get it. I realize it's visual for the man. But after I put the babydoll or bustier on, then what? Do we go about making dinner? Watch a movie? I seriously can't put on a piece of clothing only for it to be taken off 10 min later--or is that the point? I need someone to explain this to me like I'm 3 and don't understand why I need to wear a coat in the winter when we're going from the house to the car.

You do not know men. Men are visually simulated and they typically like lingerie. It is that simple. And if the woman is wearing lingerie, it usually/can leads to sex. Is that simple enough??

+1

[Anonymous]

Okay. I will agree that there is no point to it when you are 23.
But I’m 45. I had three 9+ lb babies, via c-section, who are currently teenagers, zero plastic surgery, and the kind of gym time that three kids and a full time sedentary job allows.
I am not comfortable naked. A little lace hides a lot .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The question is who buys it - you at his request or him? If it’s something he asks for he should get your size and bring it. I only wear what I like for myself or nothing
Leather sets, bustiers etc can run up thousands particular something fancy

Thousands, really? Nobody here is considering that. $50-100 gets it done. Even a $10 dollar fishnet body stocking can be fun.

Good, quality lingerie is soft and silky. The kind that you don’t actually mind wearing for more than 10m!

If he likes lingerie, send him the la Perla website to browse! If he’s going to be demanding, he can make it worth your while.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay. I will agree that there is no point to it when you are 23.
But I’m 45. I had three 9+ lb babies, via c-section, who are currently teenagers, zero plastic surgery, and the kind of gym time that three kids and a full time sedentary job allows.
I am not comfortable naked. A little lace hides a lot .

50F here. I loved wearing that stuff when I was younger, but at some point along the way fell off. I came to associate it with a nicer package inside the wrapping, I guess. Anyway DH and I had a pretty nice conversation about it recently when I asked what he thought. Short answer is, it’s just as nice on an aging body, which honestly was nice to hear but not what I expected.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay. I will agree that there is no point to it when you are 23.
But I’m 45. I had three 9+ lb babies, via c-section, who are currently teenagers, zero plastic surgery, and the kind of gym time that three kids and a full time sedentary job allows.
I am not comfortable naked. A little lace hides a lot .

50F here. I loved wearing that stuff when I was younger, but at some point along the way fell off. I came to associate it with a nicer package inside the wrapping, I guess. Anyway DH and I had a pretty nice conversation about it recently when I asked what he thought. Short answer is, it’s just as nice on an aging body, which honestly was nice to hear but not what I expected.

Post a picture, please, when you get it.

[Anonymous]

I have a couple of beautiful silk nightgowns and the nights I wear them my husband knows that I’m really going to be into it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a new guy who like lingerie. It's never been my thing but I'm happy to give it a go. But I don't get it. I realize it's visual for the man. But after I put the babydoll or bustier on, then what? Do we go about making dinner? Watch a movie? I seriously can't put on a piece of clothing only for it to be taken off 10 min later--or is that the point? I need someone to explain this to me like I'm 3 and don't understand why I need to wear a coat in the winter when we're going from the house to the car.

Ok, let me explain it to you like you are 3.
Your guy needs to get hard to put his peepee into your fanny to make whoopee. Physical, mental or visual stimulations are necessary for his peepee to get hard.
By wearing lingerie even for a few minutes, you are activating the visual and mental stimulation he needs to reach that state.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm dating a new guy who like lingerie. It's never been my thing but I'm happy to give it a go. But I don't get it. I realize it's visual for the man. But after I put the babydoll or bustier on, then what? Do we go about making dinner? Watch a movie? I seriously can't put on a piece of clothing only for it to be taken off 10 min later--or is that the point? I need someone to explain this to me like I'm 3 and don't understand why I need to wear a coat in the winter when we're going from the house to the car.

Ok, let me explain it to you like you are 3.
Your guy needs to get hard to put his peepee into your fanny to make whoopee. Physical, mental or visual stimulations are necessary for his peepee to get hard.
By wearing lingerie even for a few minutes, you are activating the visual and mental stimulation he needs to reach that state.

Fanny? Good lord

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After date night I usually go "freshen up" and change into a g-string or flimsy thong. Not the kind of thing I'd wear all day but for 5 minutes sure. Also it lasts longer if you wear it for only a little bit.

Sometimes will do "chores" in just that too, and yes I have some heels for this as well.

You sound really fun - seriously, good on ya!