| Sounds like you need a new gym. |
| Some older women are SAF and don’t have to advertise. I’m in the minority and find an in shape, older women sexy. Also, older women have confidence. The older women I’ve slept who are in good shape and don’t care what they look or feel like once the lights dim. They just got it! |
| Which gym? I'm a classically pretty, older woman who goes to the gym to exercise and nobody flirts with me. |
Really? I’d be interested to hear the response if OP ever asked, though I doubt anyone would be honest enough to say “not confident.” |
A middle aged woman will generally be able to banter and make good conversation with people. |