Husband asked me to keep extra weight

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He probably worried about your health at 110 pds.

Why 110bs at 5’1” is normal weight.

[Anonymous]

Did he said the bigger the cushion…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a new one for me and I don’t know what to do. Most people want their partners to lose weight but mine wants me to keep the extra weight. I’ve always been pretty skinny until I had my first. I have 10lbs to go until I’m back to my normal weight and my husband said he likes it and I should keep it on. I’m very flattered but I don’t like being 10lbs bigger. Do I keep the weight to make him happy or lose the weight to make myself happy?

You should eat real food, and exercise and get strong to be healthy. “Skinny” is for prepubescent children.

You are talking about the number but not how you look or feel physically.
Do you like being smaller, or do you cover your insecurities by being proud of the number on the scale?

[Anonymous]

Men are attracted to curves but social media convinced them otherwise. The man's brain responds positively when he sees a woman with nice hips. His natural instinct to spread his seeds kicks in. But the media has convinced men that women who look like walking sticks and survive on carrot sticks and shakes are more attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men are attracted to curves but social media convinced them otherwise. The man's brain responds positively when he sees a woman with nice hips. His natural instinct to spread his seeds kicks in. But the media has convinced men that women who look like walking sticks and survive on carrot sticks and shakes are more attractive.

No it hasn't. That's nonsense. Hardly any man I know wants a rail thin woman. We all like curves. We just don't want obese women. Curves means she has a waistline that curves inward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a new one for me and I don’t know what to do. Most people want their partners to lose weight but mine wants me to keep the extra weight. I’ve always been pretty skinny until I had my first. I have 10lbs to go until I’m back to my normal weight and my husband said he likes it and I should keep it on. I’m very flattered but I don’t like being 10lbs bigger. Do I keep the weight to make him happy or lose the weight to make myself happy?

You should eat real food, and exercise and get strong to be healthy. “Skinny” is for prepubescent children.

You are talking about the number but not how you look or feel physically.
Do you like being smaller, or do you cover your insecurities by being proud of the number on the scale?

I do eat real food and exercise. I’m just naturally skinny. I don’t follow a number on a scale and I’m not insecure about my body. I do feel chubby with this extra weight and prefer to be at my normal weight because it makes me feel the most comfortable. I like being able to wear my old clothes and be comfortable in them.

I don’t agree that “ skinny” is for prepubescent children. Many adults are naturally skinny.