Husband asked me to keep extra weight
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Anonymous
| This is a new one for me and I don’t know what to do. Most people want their partners to lose weight but mine wants me to keep the extra weight. I’ve always been pretty skinny until I had my first. I have 10lbs to go until I’m back to my normal weight and my husband said he likes it and I should keep it on. I’m very flattered but I don’t like being 10lbs bigger. Do I keep the weight to make him happy or lose the weight to make myself happy? |
Anonymous
| Split the difference. |
Anonymous
| You always keep the weight the way you want it but ask him what he likes about the heavier mode. Maybe you look really pretty as a new mom and he wants you to feel good about yourself instead of stressing. Maybe it's just the boob's. You might get to keep those, lol. |
Anonymous
| Bigger butt and boobs? |
Anonymous
| I guess it depends. Are you overweight? Will the 10lbs impact your health? How will the 10lbs impact your self-esteem? It’s great that he loves your new body you shouldn’t stay at that weight if you’re unhappy. |
Anonymous
I’ve always had big boobs. I’ve been very lucky to carry most of my pregnancy weight in my butt, hips, and thighs. He has loved my news curves and tells me all of the time. |
Anonymous
I’m not overweight. I’m a little over 5’1” and was 110lbs. Now I’m 120lbs. Still within a healthy weight. I feel chunky. I would be happier going back to my old weight. |
Anonymous
I think he's just appreciating you. You need to feel comfortable with yourself. And maybe get your old clothes back. Tell him pounds come and go, and these are going to go for now. |
Anonymous
Just like you shouldn't lose weight for anyone other than you, don't keep it either. Do what makes you happy and healthy. |
Anonymous
| Just get fakies. |
Anonymous
| Curvy is sexy. Big boobs a plus! D cup or bigger and I’ll do anything for you… |
Anonymous
| Do what is healthiest FOR YOUR BODY. |
Anonymous
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My husband hates the skinny ozempic look. He also doesn’t like the crazy Lardashuan proportions.
Healthy with some muscle and some athletic curves. When I point out women I think look great —he’s always like “way too skinny”. Whenever I think I look my best, he thinks I e gotten too thin. I’m 55 and it’s been this way since we met 30 years ago  . I’m glad he loves my body at the healthiest size—not one I have to starve to achieve.
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Anonymous
I’m healthy at 110lbs. I don’t look too skinny. |
Anonymous
| You do you. Don’t sacrifice yourself to make him happy. If he truly loves you, he will continue to love you as your happy self. |