Aubrey Plaza and her husband were separated at the time of his death

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Anonymous wrote:It is horrific being with someone with mental health issues who isn't getting better.

I was with someone and I had no idea of the extent of their issues; they hid it well but they were able to because I was naive and didn't know better.

There were signs looking back, but maybe I didn't want to find them.

He broke up with me and killed himself not long after. He reached out to me right before it happened to say some hurtful things. Through much therapy, I know it is not my fault and I wished he had sought help. It is the one most devastating event of my life. I will never be the same. I wished he had decided to live. I will forever carry his burden.

You can lay down that burden. As you said, it's not your fault. And him choosing to stay alive or not was not your responsibility.

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Relationship holiday?? This is one of the dumbest things I've read on this site (and that's saying a lot). Not everyone places huge significance on essentially made up days. I have spent holidays alone even when partnered simply because of work/timing/life. Healthy relationships don't feel the need to spend every waking moment together despite your made up holidays. Aubrey did nothing wrong by being at a basketball game. What a stupid childish take on a sad situation.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

His will to live is not her responsibility. I'm sure she feels guilt but she should not. They were separated for four months, and it seems like with very good reason. When someone commits suicide after another person leaves them, it pretty much solidifies why the person left.

What a disgusting thing to say. They were married. Separate is not filed for divorce. What in the heck is wrong with you? Maybe google what wedding vows are before you post such heartless nonsense. And take your vows seriously or stop making a mockery of marriage and don’t bother. If she got cancer and he abandoned her would you also say the same? Mental health and cancer are serious ailments.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

His will to live is not her responsibility. I'm sure she feels guilt but she should not. They were separated for four months, and it seems like with very good reason. When someone commits suicide after another person leaves them, it pretty much solidifies why the person left.

What a disgusting thing to say. They were married. Separate is not filed for divorce. What in the heck is wrong with you? Maybe google what wedding vows are before you post such heartless nonsense. And take your vows seriously or stop making a mockery of marriage and don’t bother. If she got cancer and he abandoned her would you also say the same? Mental health and cancer are serious ailments.

NP - you are the one who needs help.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

Its actually a terrible idea to let a depressed person dictate how you live your life. By definition, they don't have a good understanding of what healthy living looks like. Aubrey went to a basketball game. She did nothing wrong and its gross that youre trying to allege that seeing your wife watching a basketball game is understandable grounds for suicide.

You’re conflating blame with mere timeline of events. Her husband committed suicide two days after his wife went viral a NBA game while sitting court-side with another man. And since she was in NYC on New Year’s Day and everyone’s claiming they were separated for months, we can infer they spent the holidays 3,000 miles away from each other on opposite sides of the country. Presumably the first time they spent all of those holidays apart. If you know your husband or wife has fragile mental health, after spending the holidays apart, I don’t think making a viral scene at a holiday pro sports game is the kindest thing to do is all.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

His will to live is not her responsibility. I'm sure she feels guilt but she should not. They were separated for four months, and it seems like with very good reason. When someone commits suicide after another person leaves them, it pretty much solidifies why the person left.

What a disgusting thing to say. They were married. Separate is not filed for divorce. What in the heck is wrong with you? Maybe google what wedding vows are before you post such heartless nonsense. And take your vows seriously or stop making a mockery of marriage and don’t bother. If she got cancer and he abandoned her would you also say the same? Mental health and cancer are serious ailments.

It’s not a disgusting thing to say. Sadly, it’s true. No one can make another person want to live, not even a devoted, loving spouse. None of us has any idea what Aubrey Plaza went through, trying to get her husband help, trying to save him. If at some point, she needed to leave him for the sake of her own mental health, who can blame her? I’m sure this has been traumatic for her, but her husband’s debilitating depression was not her fault and the will to live was not something she could impart.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

Its actually a terrible idea to let a depressed person dictate how you live your life. By definition, they don't have a good understanding of what healthy living looks like. Aubrey went to a basketball game. She did nothing wrong and its gross that youre trying to allege that seeing your wife watching a basketball game is understandable grounds for suicide.

You’re conflating blame with mere timeline of events. Her husband committed suicide two days after his wife went viral a NBA game while sitting court-side with another man. And since she was in NYC on New Year’s Day and everyone’s claiming they were separated for months, we can infer they spent the holidays 3,000 miles away from each other on opposite sides of the country. Presumably the first time they spent all of those holidays apart. If you know your husband or wife has fragile mental health, after spending the holidays apart, I don’t think making a viral scene at a holiday pro sports game is the kindest thing to do is all.

You seem awfully confident that a man who was deep in the throes of crushing depression was watching basketball.

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chaining yourself to a cinder block doesn't mean the cinder block won't sink.

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This discussion is terrible. Nobody knows what really went on in their marriage. She obviously did not want her husband to commit suicide.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

Its actually a terrible idea to let a depressed person dictate how you live your life. By definition, they don't have a good understanding of what healthy living looks like. Aubrey went to a basketball game. She did nothing wrong and its gross that youre trying to allege that seeing your wife watching a basketball game is understandable grounds for suicide.

You’re conflating blame with mere timeline of events. Her husband committed suicide two days after his wife went viral a NBA game while sitting court-side with another man. And since she was in NYC on New Year’s Day and everyone’s claiming they were separated for months, we can infer they spent the holidays 3,000 miles away from each other on opposite sides of the country. Presumably the first time they spent all of those holidays apart. If you know your husband or wife has fragile mental health, after spending the holidays apart, I don’t think making a viral scene at a holiday pro sports game is the kindest thing to do is all.

You seem awfully confident that a man who was deep in the throes of crushing depression was watching basketball.

It was viral. It was a highly publicized 7:30 pm game on network TV that Wednesday night. NY Knicks even shared her on their social media. Husband appears to have died a day later on Thursday — he was discovered early Friday morning.

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

Its actually a terrible idea to let a depressed person dictate how you live your life. By definition, they don't have a good understanding of what healthy living looks like. Aubrey went to a basketball game. She did nothing wrong and its gross that youre trying to allege that seeing your wife watching a basketball game is understandable grounds for suicide.

You’re conflating blame with mere timeline of events. Her husband committed suicide two days after his wife went viral a NBA game while sitting court-side with another man. And since she was in NYC on New Year’s Day and everyone’s claiming they were separated for months, we can infer they spent the holidays 3,000 miles away from each other on opposite sides of the country. Presumably the first time they spent all of those holidays apart. If you know your husband or wife has fragile mental health, after spending the holidays apart, I don’t think making a viral scene at a holiday pro sports game is the kindest thing to do is all.

You seem awfully confident that a man who was deep in the throes of crushing depression was watching basketball.

It was viral. It was a highly publicized 7:30 pm game on network TV that Wednesday night. NY Knicks even shared her on their social media. Husband appears to have died a day later on Thursday — he was discovered early Friday morning.

You’re still just guessing.