Aubrey Plaza and her husband were separated at the time of his death

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Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

WOW. That is a helluva take, psycho.

A RELATIONSHIP HOLIDAY, SHE SAID.

Aubrey was taking a holiday from her relationship, as is her right.

[Anonymous]

The obituary - so very sad.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t know what is wrong with the headline but my take from reading the article is that he was probably torturing her by text message. I’m sure it was horrible.

Headline: "Aubrey Plaza Had Been Separated from Husband Jeff Baena for 4 Months Before His Death, Autopsy Confirms"

They changed it.

How in the world would an autopsy confirm that people had been separated for four months before a death?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don’t know what is wrong with the headline but my take from reading the article is that he was probably torturing her by text message. I’m sure it was horrible.

Headline: "Aubrey Plaza Had Been Separated from Husband Jeff Baena for 4 Months Before His Death, Autopsy Confirms"

They changed it.

How in the world would an autopsy confirm that people had been separated for four months before a death?

Cut him in half and counted the growth rings?

[Anonymous]

Is this her first job after his death?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

His will to live is not her responsibility. I'm sure she feels guilt but she should not. They were separated for four months, and it seems like with very good reason. When someone commits suicide after another person leaves them, it pretty much solidifies why the person left.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

His will to live is not her responsibility. I'm sure she feels guilt but she should not. They were separated for four months, and it seems like with very good reason. When someone commits suicide after another person leaves them, it pretty much solidifies why the person left.

Good point.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

I don’t understand why you’re fixated on her having fun at a game. Her husband suffered from chronic depression. That probably played a role in their separation, which made him even more depressed. Holiday celebrations are hard for people who are depressed and can’t enjoy the holidays like everyone else. January is wintertime, which means people also suffer from seasonal depression. He was going to be depressed whether she attended a game or sat at home, twiddling her thumbs. How do you know he even saw her at the game? He may have been too depressed to watch.

[Anonymous]

It is horrific being with someone with mental health issues who isn't getting better.

I was with someone and I had no idea of the extent of their issues; they hid it well but they were able to because I was naive and didn't know better.

There were signs looking back, but maybe I didn't want to find them.

He broke up with me and killed himself not long after. He reached out to me right before it happened to say some hurtful things. Through much therapy, I know it is not my fault and I wished he had sought help. It is the one most devastating event of my life. I will never be the same. I wished he had decided to live. I will forever carry his burden.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

Its actually a terrible idea to let a depressed person dictate how you live your life. By definition, they don't have a good understanding of what healthy living looks like. Aubrey went to a basketball game. She did nothing wrong and its gross that youre trying to allege that seeing your wife watching a basketball game is understandable grounds for suicide.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

No. I think you are deeply troubled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new.

Required? No. It’s just such a holiday apart solidifies things were over. Holidays and NYE alone, away from your spouse, is not exactly fun. Then you turn on TV or social media or entertainment website and see your spouse having the time of their life courtside at a basketball game. You won’t see how that would tip an already depressed man over the edge?

No. I think you are deeply troubled.

+1. Hectoring a widow after a suicide-- deeply troubling behavior

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It is horrific being with someone with mental health issues who isn't getting better.

I was with someone and I had no idea of the extent of their issues; they hid it well but they were able to because I was naive and didn't know better.

There were signs looking back, but maybe I didn't want to find them.

He broke up with me and killed himself not long after. He reached out to me right before it happened to say some hurtful things. Through much therapy, I know it is not my fault and I wished he had sought help. It is the one most devastating event of my life. I will never be the same. I wished he had decided to live. I will forever carry his burden.

You can lay down that burden. As you said, it's not your fault. And him choosing to stay alive or not was not your responsibility.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Didn’t he kill himself practically right after she appeared to be dancing courtside with another man at a nationally televised NBA game on New Year’s Day?

The comedian guy that literally everyone knows is gay, except trolls who are trying to blame Aubrey Plaza for her husband’s suicide?

Thank you for confirming she was at a high-profile game on New Year's Day after not spending a relationship holiday (NYE) with her husband. Nobody is blaming her, however, it's far from a leap to think her estranged husband saw her viral on social media or live on TV that day and it put him in a bad space.

The sad truth is that there will always be an event, an occasion, a "something" that can trigger a depressed person. It's a very heavy weight that loved ones carry...