Unfortunately this is common. People's relationships break down due to their mental health, and one of the partners is overwhelmed and becomes more self destructive. I've seen it in real life twice with friends who were separated from their spouses and their husbands died by suicide and drug OD respectively.
I feel for Aubrey because people act like she had something to do with it when she was just living her life. |
I know two women whose husbands killed themselves within weeks/months of their separation.
Both women struggled for years to not blame themselves. While they obviously weren’t at fault, it absolutely weighs on them. I think many people assumed Aubrey had separated from him when the news broke. |
They changed it. |
Are you married? Name one time you didn't spend NYE with your spouse going back probably years before you two were even married. It's absolutely a relationship holiday. And I can see how it would put a depressed man or woman estranged from their spouse in a bad space, is all. Plus then having to see photos of it whether on social media or trending and on national TV if you're famous. |
They separated in September. If it's a relationship holiday, it doesn't make sense for people who are specifically choosing to live apart to to spend it together. Do you spend NYE with your ex? |
No expectation, of course. But you don't see how a depressed spouse - whether male or female - is likely to get into a deeper depression after not spending NYE together and then seeing their significant other having a great time at a pro sporting match on NYD? I assume it felt officially over at that point. |
Had they started divorce proceedings? Does she stand to inherit whatever wealth and life insurance he had? |
You guys are ghouls. May you never lose someone to suicide... |
I've taken girls' trips and also extended holiday travel overseas. We're married not shackled. |
They were separated, why would she spend a holiday with him? |
Did she know he was depressed? Even so, no loner her problem if divorcing. |
I just saw the exact same headline |
My partner struggled after I left, got careless soon after and passed away. I don't blame myself at all. Glad I got away from the abuse.
I was told the day after they passed that they may have been SN. Their family denies Sn, but it all makes sense now. Most of them are. No more hiding behind cultural differences. |
A "relationship holiday"? I didn't know there were specific days that an individual is REQUIRED to spend with their spouse. Thanks for teaching me something new. ![]() |
I know multiple men who took their own lives during a separation/breakup. I don't know any women who did the same. |