How did you bust your cheating spouse?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

Card from AP was not technology but got busted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

I actually dreamed about him cheating about a year before I found out. When I found out about an act of infidelity in the past, it happened at the same time I dreamed about him cheating. So, I also think that something in his micro expressions or body told me long before I consciously knew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cell phone bill. We have autopay and so no paper bill has been sent in ages and no one ever looked at the bill online. He started acting like an even bigger d-bag than usual, but I couldn’t find anything. Then i realized that the Verizon website has a full list of every single number called. Can’t believe it took me so long and can’t believe he’s too dumb for a burner account

Haha. Mine tried to change the bill to his office address, but I found out and called and had it changed back. He didn't realize it's available online anyway because he's never paid a bill as long as we lived together.

TBh, 50% of the reason I kicked him out was the cheating, but the other 50% was that his cheating and lame cover up made me realize how incredibly dumb and incompetent he was.

I hate to break it to you but he didnt give af at that point. He figured the cover up wasnt worth it because he just didnt care about you anymore.

[Anonymous]

We were close friends with another couple that had a kid the same age as ours. Used to go out with them all the time.

That husband, turns out, was having an affair with a colleague and the wife found out because her friend saw the two together on the metro and texted her.

My ex-wife defended him when we learned of this. Literally, the nanosecond I saw her rationalize his affair, it was like I was kicked in the stomach. I knew right then that she was cheating, just not with who yet. That took like a week to figure out. Predictably it was a colleague too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:STD he couldn’t hide

Public toilet seat?

lol, not unless he wiped it with his d*&#($

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:STD he couldn’t hide

Public toilet seat?

lol, not unless he wiped it with his d*&#($

Where do you think it goes when they sit to s*&#?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

You're misunderstanding the dynamic. "These people" are closeted polyamorous who are attracted to and prefer to pair with monogamous people.

We are the most misunderstood group in the diversity spectrum. I want to be polyamorous, but my wife wouldn't accept it. I also want her to be monogamous--it's what I'm attracted to in a wife. But somehow society judges me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

You're misunderstanding the dynamic. "These people" are closeted polyamorous who are attracted to and prefer to pair with monogamous people.

We are the most misunderstood group in the diversity spectrum. I want to be polyamorous, but my wife wouldn't accept it. I also want her to be monogamous--it's what I'm attracted to in a wife. But somehow society judges me.

No judgement zone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

You're misunderstanding the dynamic. "These people" are closeted polyamorous who are attracted to and prefer to pair with monogamous people.

We are the most misunderstood group in the diversity spectrum. I want to be polyamorous, but my wife wouldn't accept it. I also want her to be monogamous--it's what I'm attracted to in a wife. But somehow society judges me.

No judgement zone.

Thank you. It's hard being in a mixed poly/mono relationship. I feel like the whole world is ready to judge me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

You're misunderstanding the dynamic. "These people" are closeted polyamorous who are attracted to and prefer to pair with monogamous people.

We are the most misunderstood group in the diversity spectrum. I want to be polyamorous, but my wife wouldn't accept it. I also want her to be monogamous--it's what I'm attracted to in a wife. But somehow society judges me.

Thanks for the laugh. 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.

It’s so much easier for women to cheat now. Back in the Draper days SAHMs were at home with no way to meet men. Now they connect with thousands online- and can arrange hookups when “Don” is at work and Sally is at school. Women also weren’t working out if the home as the norm like now either- which makes work affairs (not just secretaries anymore) easier.

Women are out cheating men in some age groups in 2025.

I don't know about the rates but why can't these people just have polyamorous lives and stop intertwining their lives with monogamous people?

You're misunderstanding the dynamic. "These people" are closeted polyamorous who are attracted to and prefer to pair with monogamous people.

We are the most misunderstood group in the diversity spectrum. I want to be polyamorous, but my wife wouldn't accept it. I also want her to be monogamous--it's what I'm attracted to in a wife. But somehow society judges me.

I want to not work, but get paid. But somehow society judges me. I feel so misunderstood.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

I actually dreamed about him cheating about a year before I found out. When I found out about an act of infidelity in the past, it happened at the same time I dreamed about him cheating. So, I also think that something in his micro expressions or body told me long before I consciously knew.

Me too with the dreams. And the utter physical revulsion I felt towards him for years that I thought was a me problem 🤣

[Anonymous]

Not me but two friends:

1. phone syncing as seen earlier in this thread

2. found spouse's burner phone. Whoops!