How did you bust your cheating spouse?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Looking through pictures on the family computer and noticed a large amount of selfies that had never been sent to me with facial expressions that wouldn’t make sense to send to anyone else but a love interest. Looked in deleted pictures and found the jackpot, AirDropped them to my phone, then emailed them to myself then on to another account and then I confronted.
A year and a half of anxiety and confusion came into focus in 20 seconds, the love drained from my body just as quickly.

I know the stupid selfies you speak of…front seat of car with seatbelt on and a seductive look to the camera. Who the hell is taking those for themselves. I honestly have never taken a selfie - by myself- in my entire life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looking through pictures on the family computer and noticed a large amount of selfies that had never been sent to me with facial expressions that wouldn’t make sense to send to anyone else but a love interest. Looked in deleted pictures and found the jackpot, AirDropped them to my phone, then emailed them to myself then on to another account and then I confronted.
A year and a half of anxiety and confusion came into focus in 20 seconds, the love drained from my body just as quickly.

I know the stupid selfies you speak of…front seat of car with seatbelt on and a seductive look to the camera. Who the hell is taking those for themselves. I honestly have never taken a selfie - by myself- in my entire life.

I do every now and then when I'm dolled up twice a year or the lighting is really awesome. But I never post them anywhere. I just want to remember I was pretty when I am 80.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He synced his phone with our family iTunes account and all her texts start showing up to all of our phones

This is so funny. And I'm sorry.

I pulled into the driveway and her phone synced with my car radio as "Sue's phone" and I heard her say "He's home. I'll call you later"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Looking through pictures on the family computer and noticed a large amount of selfies that had never been sent to me with facial expressions that wouldn’t make sense to send to anyone else but a love interest. Looked in deleted pictures and found the jackpot, AirDropped them to my phone, then emailed them to myself then on to another account and then I confronted.
A year and a half of anxiety and confusion came into focus in 20 seconds, the love drained from my body just as quickly.

I know the stupid selfies you speak of…front seat of car with seatbelt on and a seductive look to the camera. Who the hell is taking those for themselves. I honestly have never taken a selfie - by myself- in my entire life.

The thing that did it for me was the video they saved of their AP professing their love, watching another person say I LOVE YOU to your spouse is effing nauseating.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Not me but one of my close friends. His AP started leaving little things around their house. Bobby pins, hair ties, bits of make up, small things her husband wouldn't notice or realize was from his AP but obvious enough for my friend to find them and know what was going on. Which led to some "stalking" and eventual catching them in the act.

I think the AP wanted him busted.
So she can keep him.

Oh she totally forced his hand. Definitely planted that stuff on purpose.

Pp here. Oh yeah there is so much more to the story but she absolutely wanted her to find it. And she left some specific things behind to make her suspect who the AP was. Her husband was a jerk but this woman was psycho.

[Anonymous]

Cell phone bill. We have autopay and so no paper bill has been sent in ages and no one ever looked at the bill online. He started acting like an even bigger d-bag than usual, but I couldn’t find anything. Then i realized that the Verizon website has a full list of every single number called. Can’t believe it took me so long and can’t believe he’s too dumb for a burner account

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cell phone bill. We have autopay and so no paper bill has been sent in ages and no one ever looked at the bill online. He started acting like an even bigger d-bag than usual, but I couldn’t find anything. Then i realized that the Verizon website has a full list of every single number called. Can’t believe it took me so long and can’t believe he’s too dumb for a burner account

Haha. Mine tried to change the bill to his office address, but I found out and called and had it changed back. He didn't realize it's available online anyway because he's never paid a bill as long as we lived together.

TBh, 50% of the reason I kicked him out was the cheating, but the other 50% was that his cheating and lame cover up made me realize how incredibly dumb and incompetent he was.

[Anonymous]

My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

[Anonymous]

He was matched on Tinder with a friend’s younger sister.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He was matched on Tinder with a friend’s younger sister.

Ugh!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

What did you find in his iPad ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

What did you find in his iPad ?

A few emails from hotels with messages like “hope you enjoyed your stay” and dates when I was out of town. Then his single and young AP very kindly sent me a slew of texts between them it was an 8 month affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My body knew first was literally sick with odd mysterious symptoms. After a year of things be weird I went through his iPad

What did you find in his iPad ?

A few emails from hotels with messages like “hope you enjoyed your stay” and dates when I was out of town. Then his single and young AP very kindly sent me a slew of texts between them it was an 8 month affair.

“Kindly” is sarcastic. They were devastating

[Anonymous]

I found a card from the AP.

[Anonymous]

It must have been easier to cheat back in the old days. Now, technology always gets you busted and especially Apple products that always want to sync up. Don Draper didn't have these problems.