What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

[Anonymous]

Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

Depends on if they both have clothes on or not? Is the massage in public view or private?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.

Not a paid service. Rather an offer from a married man to a single woman

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If someone is married nothing like that is innocent fun.

This is the correct answer.

Correct. Don't open the pandora box. You and your loves ones will get burned. Stop now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

LOL! Yes, unless he's a CMT. And even then, be sure to tell the spouse what's going on ahead of time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

If it’s something he’d be okay doing in front of his wife then yes. If not then you know the answer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.

Not a paid service. Rather an offer from a married man to a single woman

Why would he do that?

[Anonymous]

Not married but in a what I would consider serious relationship. I really dislike modern day dating and how it is such a hard concept for people to understand that there are certain lines that shouldn’t be crossed when having conversations with a friend of the opposite sex. It’s so hurtful and hard to learn that someone you are in a committed relationship has crossed the line with a “friend” or even a past ex. Ask me how I know.

[Anonymous]

Was recently sent photos of DMs my significant other had with a so-called friend. What I consider innocent and inappropriate have completely changed. I

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you have to ask...

Yep!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as innocent flirting. Flirting is flirting and is part of hitting on someone. You might just be leading them on if you aren't intending to do anything about it but it is still flirting.

Ding ding ding!!

I’ve been married 16 years and in a relationship with my husband for over 20. Crushes develop and attraction to somebody happens on its own but flirting is a choice to start something and that’s the line. It’s time to back away from whoever you are flirting with. Limit contact to what is essential and don’t seek them out. Unfed, crushes will die in a few weeks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as innocent flirting. Flirting is flirting and is part of hitting on someone. You might just be leading them on if you aren't intending to do anything about it but it is still flirting.

Ding ding ding!!

I’ve been married 16 years and in a relationship with my husband for over 20. Crushes develop and attraction to somebody happens on its own but flirting is a choice to start something and that’s the line. It’s time to back away from whoever you are flirting with. Limit contact to what is essential and don’t seek them out. Unfed, crushes will die in a few weeks.

Yes, this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The line is where there’s no question about whether something is inappropriate. If you’re worrying about getting too close to a line, you’ve already crossed it.

Very profound.

Accurate too.