Then go join a top team Once again, all exceptional players stand out. Cavan Sullivan doesn't stand out at all moments in every game. No one does. But he doesn't need to be on a winning team for soccer knowledgeable people to see he's exceptional. |
This sounds like you aren't there. OP is looking for details since they are moving in... |
It sounds like you stay in your car every practice at Witter. Yes, it happens. Do you want names, too? Crazy. |
Haha ok bud...just crank it down a level eh? Like imagine that there are parents of kids who aren't the absolute standout player, but are still in the mix on a team in the top youth league in America. You following? These kids are already better than about 99% of youth soccer players in America. Sometimes kids just need a break and can crack on from there. More eyes can provide a break. Not hard to follow my guy. Or are you the type to write off 14-year-olds because they aren't the best kid in the US? Probably because you are bitter about your own kid.... |
Sure? This is gibberish |
You introduced Cavan Sullivan to the discussion then are asking to crank it down a level What is this more eyes stuff? If you're living on a hope and a prayer that your kid is going to have a Rudy Ruettiger movie scenario, the odds are way against you. Its not how many eyes see the kid, it's the kid doing the right things and the right eyes and ears will know. |
The personal-attack, non-sequitur writing style ("you stay in your car at practice . . . you are crazy") reminds me of a certain someone who posts here a lot (ex-Metro United coach ).
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Dude, Browski If your kid is in the top league in America as you've stated, then isn't he playing against top teams? Aren't the same eyes watching them gonna see your boy? |
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I have a lesser point (to the points already made about trying to make sure your kid is playing for a coach that believes in you), but it is a concrete example and it doesn't just apply to just ASA. A lot of clubs deal with it happening to their top teams and doing the right thing developing kids. There is one ASA age group (it is not an age group my DS is associated with, but I don't want to name the age) that lost a couple of their best players (developed by ASA) to DCU a few years ago. This team was once dominating, but they haven't been the same since, but they are still doing fine IMO. When scouts look at this team, are they thinking "meh" or rather is there anyone we missed? Is there anyone else they developed? All the clubs in the area have to deal with this, not just ASA. You can't lose your top players and not experience a setback on the W-L record, but yet it is a good thing that it happened. |
Not sure? lol. What a loser. |
More successful teams get invited to more things...make it further. Get into finals and such. They get more people watching them...it really isn't a new concept or one that is hard to follow. |
Precisely. |
Is this the ASA keyboard warrior that consistently exhibits cognitive dissonance? On the clock again. |
The concept you need to learn is that the scouts and coaches already know who they want to see. So keep using the teams as excuses instead of making your player desirable regardless of his team's record. |