Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?

[Anonymous]

I think it’s weird to celebrate at his home, there should be a fun and festive date out somewhere. Too early in the relationship to be doing bootie calls. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s weird to celebrate at his home, there should be a fun and festive date out somewhere. Too early in the relationship to be doing bootie calls. Yuck.

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I kind of agree. A home date - on New Year’s Eve - when they haven’t slept together yet seems too awkward and high pressure. OP seems on board and I hope she has a great time but this wouldn’t be for me. I’m old and married now, but when I was young and dating I wanted to get glammed up and be taken out for NYE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s weird to celebrate at his home, there should be a fun and festive date out somewhere. Too early in the relationship to be doing bootie calls. Yuck.

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I kind of agree. A home date - on New Year’s Eve - when they haven’t slept together yet seems too awkward and high pressure. OP seems on board and I hope she has a great time but this wouldn’t be for me. I’m old and married now, but when I was young and dating I wanted to get glammed up and be taken out for NYE.

Know yourself and your date, I suppose. I’m an old married and it sounded great. NYE is cold, crowded, kind of a let down (unless you are at a good friends’s warm party). Doesn’t seem like the best way to start intimacy after that, particularly since you’d get home at 1 or 2 am.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s weird to celebrate at his home, there should be a fun and festive date out somewhere. Too early in the relationship to be doing bootie calls. Yuck.

Disagree. NYE is amateur night at most places.

[Anonymous]

The above 2 posts are how I'd feel now, as an Old Married, about wine and cards by the fire on NYE, but if I was single and dating a new guy I wouldn't be too pleased if he invited me to netflix and chill.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:SOS here. I'm excitedly yet newly dating someone for the first time since my divorce. He invited me over NYE to cook a nice meal together with a fancy bottle of wine, fireplace, play cards. I'd assume this includes the potential of sleeping over which hasn't happened yet.

1. What would you wear for a cozy NYE night in?

2. What would you bring to sleep in?

What if your assumption is wrong and you show up with sleeping suit and nigh gown to a dinner invite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The above 2 posts are how I'd feel now, as an Old Married, about wine and cards by the fire on NYE, but if I was single and dating a new guy I wouldn't be too pleased if he invited me to netflix and chill.

OP is divorced and presumably old enough to know NYE outside of the house sucks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's New Years Eve! Wear a dress for sure!

This. Something you’d wear to a fancy restaurant for dinner but that’s comfortable enough to “cook”

OMG no. He asked her over for a cozy night in to cook a meal together and play cards. Obviously we all know what’s really on the menu here, but at least pretend to play along.

+1 don’t serve it up too easy Op. you might decide at 11:58 that you don’t like him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s weird to celebrate at his home, there should be a fun and festive date out somewhere. Too early in the relationship to be doing bootie calls. Yuck.

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I kind of agree. A home date - on New Year’s Eve - when they haven’t slept together yet seems too awkward and high pressure. OP seems on board and I hope she has a great time but this wouldn’t be for me. I’m old and married now, but when I was young and dating I wanted to get glammed up and be taken out for NYE.

Same! But sounds like it’s been a long time for Op. she needs this

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:lol by all means show up to his house with a duffel bag full of PJs, toiletries, and change of clothes for the next day. And definitely wear a short slinky cocktail dress for what's being billed as a cozy night in.

(... Seriously, OP, please go with the jeans and cashmere sweater).

Or a nice skirt and sweater.

Skirt and sweater? Some people must be writing from another planet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wear something that offers easy access and is easy to remove like a short dress. Skip jeans as they take effort to remove. Skip the sleepwear, bring condoms and have fun. Please don't drink too much but a light buzz is a good idea. Definitely get started in front of the fireplace! We have one in our bedroom and on a cold winter night it's a fun place to be.

Yes, most men will be deterred by a pair of jeans.

/s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SOS here. I'm excitedly yet newly dating someone for the first time since my divorce. He invited me over NYE to cook a nice meal together with a fancy bottle of wine, fireplace, play cards. I'd assume this includes the potential of sleeping over which hasn't happened yet.

1. What would you wear for a cozy NYE night in?

2. What would you bring to sleep in?

What if your assumption is wrong and you show up with sleeping suit and nigh gown to a dinner invite?

What is a sleeping suit?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SOS here. I'm excitedly yet newly dating someone for the first time since my divorce. He invited me over NYE to cook a nice meal together with a fancy bottle of wine, fireplace, play cards. I'd assume this includes the potential of sleeping over which hasn't happened yet.

1. What would you wear for a cozy NYE night in?

2. What would you bring to sleep in?

What if your assumption is wrong and you show up with sleeping suit and nigh gown to a dinner invite?

What is a sleeping suit?

[Anonymous]

Are you driving there? Leave your overnight stuff in trunk.
Bring the condoms in with you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:lol by all means show up to his house with a duffel bag full of PJs, toiletries, and change of clothes for the next day. And definitely wear a short slinky cocktail dress for what's being billed as a cozy night in.

(... Seriously, OP, please go with the jeans and cashmere sweater).

Or a nice skirt and sweater.

Skirt and sweater? Some people must be writing from another planet.

Meaning too fancy or not fancy enough?