Referee Abuse

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

It's actually a Law, not a rule. And come on, no one yells "offsides!" every minute. Do people really see people "pointing" offsides? What does that look like? I think this is the worst post on the thread...and that's saying something.

[Anonymous]

My kids play rec soccer. Thank your daughter for being a referee! They are vital to keeping teams playing on the field.

We've had mostly great refs, occasionally so-so ones. But I would absolutely lose my mind at a parent being rude. In fact, I tell all the parents on the side lines they are not allowed to speak to the refs at all. If they have an issue, talk to the coach and let them handle it.

If there are child refs, parents need to STFU or go sign up to ref games on the weekends too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

It's actually a Law, not a rule. And come on, no one yells "offsides!" every minute. Do people really see people "pointing" offsides? What does that look like? I think this is the worst post on the thread...and that's saying something.

A law? Really? Cite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

You missed the point that it's practically impossible for a center ref even the most experienced with no AR's to call off-sides adequately. But go on....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

GMAFB. Are you "helping out" by calling out when its YOUR team offsides as well?

Glad you got the joke. But the point still stands.

There aren't enough adults signing up to be refs so they need teenagers. If you don't like that, why don't YOU sign up to ref some games each weekend? Especially since you are so good at seeing offsides?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

You missed the point that it's practically impossible for a center ref even the most experienced with no AR's to call off-sides adequately. But go on....

So go sign up to be an AR. Then you can call it all day long. If you are just a parent watching a game, button it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

GMAFB. Are you "helping out" by calling out when its YOUR team offsides as well?

Glad you got the joke. But the point still stands.

There aren't enough adults signing up to be refs so they need teenagers. If you don't like that, why don't YOU sign up to ref some games each weekend? Especially since you are so good at seeing offsides?

No you!!! The OP is the one who really should be. He claims to be at the field watching his 13 year old kid ref poorly when he is more qualified to do so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

GMAFB. Are you "helping out" by calling out when its YOUR team offsides as well?

Glad you got the joke. But the point still stands.

There aren't enough adults signing up to be refs so they need teenagers. If you don't like that, why don't YOU sign up to ref some games each weekend? Especially since you are so good at seeing offsides?

No you!!! The OP is the one who really should be. He claims to be at the field watching his 13 year old kid ref poorly when he is more qualified to do so.

So that’s a “no”? Typical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

It's actually a Law, not a rule. And come on, no one yells "offsides!" every minute. Do people really see people "pointing" offsides? What does that look like? I think this is the worst post on the thread...and that's saying something.

A law? Really? Cite?

Are you kidding me? They are called the Laws of the Game. https://www.theifab.com/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

It's actually a Law, not a rule. And come on, no one yells "offsides!" every minute. Do people really see people "pointing" offsides? What does that look like? I think this is the worst post on the thread...and that's saying something.

A law? Really? Cite?

Are you kidding me? They are called the Laws of the Game. https://www.theifab.com/

And Offside is Law 11. I'm sure you've never read it.

[Anonymous]

Those aren’t laws. Those are rules. Do at least try for a bit of perspective.

[Anonymous]

What's even worse is yelling off sides at a kid ref reffing the younger games when it's not enforced yet and refs are not supposed to call it. You shouldn't be explaining this to parents as you are there to ref but they will be melting down about it

[Anonymous]

My daughter is a high school senior but doesn’t look like it because she is very small for her age. She has played soccer since she was 4. She’s been a ref this season and has gotten a lot of games under her belt and has been doing well. She’s done rec, EDP, NCSL games and 3 tournaments. Never had an issue until last weekend at the Bethesda tournament when parents and coaches at a u9 match left her in tears. I understand not agreeing with calls, but they were yelling out mean things to her which boggles my mind because all these parents have daughters too. I now go with her to her games because I want her to know she has someone in her corner if the game gets out of hand. And parents wonder why there’s a ref shortage 🙄 clubs STRUGGLE on a weekly basis to get all of these games covered. Be thankful a ref shows up to your kids game at all!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We get it reffing is hard. That's why on the sidelines we like to help out especially with off sides calls. But here's the thing if you are a young teen trying to do a "job" to make money. You need to actually be doing a job. That means blowing your whistle and being assertive. Standing there barely moving and basically hiding away the entire game benefits no one. This happened several times to our team this year as low level travel. No we didn't berate the refs, but we knew from watching the game before no calls would be made all game. If your 13 year wants to make money they should pick something they are able to do.

Please study the rule before yelling off sides every minute. Most parents are ignorant of the factors and exceptions, especially those yelling and pointing "off sides!"

It's actually a Law, not a rule. And come on, no one yells "offsides!" every minute. Do people really see people "pointing" offsides? What does that look like? I think this is the worst post on the thread...and that's saying something.

Yes they are, I do see it often, especially to exceptions where off sides would not be the case

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Those aren’t laws. Those are rules. Do at least try for a bit of perspective.

Well maybe contact IFAB and have them change it to the Rules of the Game. I don't know what to tell you.