Not at the private schools, particularly for boys. Perhaps parents should rethink pushing to get their kid on varsity when they are younger and JV is an option. |
| The difference between 14 and 18 is also huge physically. |
Shhh don’t tell anyone! |
| Private schools have dominate 8 graders making an impact (especially on the girls side). There are virtually 0 20 year olds playing soccer and if so, they're probably not even that great. |
Hmmm check some of those CBs. |
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Totally.
There is zero competition for our HS private. They win everything by large margins. Most kids that are serious only do MLSNext and drop HS by Jr and Sr year. It is incredibly frustrating--the low level of kickball play. |
| As someone who played varsity as a 13 year old 8th grader, looking back the worst part was the seniors making us do inappropriate things on the school bus. Perhaps the physical differences aren't as big on the girls side as opposed to boys. They would make us put condoms on bananas. Pretty much anything they knew would make us uncomfortable. |
Nah--my kid tried it for a year and it was so frustrating as he got older because it was such bad, bad soccer. For kids that are really serious (play D1-semi-pro/pro)--hs and rec soccer is just not fun. |
+1 Our HS team was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyy more political than anything we ever experienced with 3 kids in club for over 10 years (at top clubs). It was ridiculous. |
Coach's son.
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+1 It cost my son his entire junior recruiting year and part of Sr year. HS soccer injury. He couldn't play college soccer until his sophomore year because rosters were full by the time he could be seen and had tape. He was playing UPSL Freshmen year in college. |
+1 we let our sons decide. Oldest tried it and it was an awful experience---so political and bad soccer. Second born saw all of that firsthand, but still wanted to do it (he didn't even last the year ). He stopped going by the end in lieu of MLS Next. He is committed now hs (jr).
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Exactly the point. They are out there knocking people around. |
| It’s not cheating btw. It’s allowed, even encouraged, in the private schools. |
| HS soccer is a bigger deal amongst the girls. ECNL works the league around HS play. Granted it is not great soccer but there are club coaches that are HS coaches and recruit into the private schools. The boys side is worse off as the DA’s old rules seem to linger into MLS. For the girls it’s a huge leadership opportunity coming into HS. My daughter had a great experience. My son played DA so no HS sports for him back then. You need to balance the workload if your kids are doing double duty….club and HS at the same time. It can be extremely rewarding when done right. |