They don’t realize it until Jr/Sr year of HS. I have warned so many soccer parents about this, but they have zero clue and think I’m FOS. |
With my sons—-straight As, get the grades and scores. Don’t rely on soccer to get u in anywhere. |
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I mean why do they play at the highest levels?
At least MLS Next players are prohibited from playing high school soccer. That forces a decision about what you want to do. ECNL should follow suit - on the boys and girls side - along with Girls Academy. |
A lot of this is travel soccer and their constant pushing soccer as an avenue to jump the line with college admissions. It becomes a self perpetuating feedback loop. Though when you see where the few who do get in to college by playing soccer go you have to wonder if they would have gotten in without soccer. Soccer is not like the revenue sports. |
So much pressure to attend the showcases, put together a video, reach out to coaches. This is all part of the broken system in my opinion. |
| I totally understand wanting to play for fun and wanting to play in high school. It’s just the endless trying to play on college when the opportunities aren’t really there for young men is disheartening. |
| To compare, DD didn’t make varsity at our private HS, but is being pursued by two D3 coaches. Actually wish they’d leave her alone. The varsity coach has spoken loud and clear. |
Aren't their millions of kids playing all kinds of sports all over the world through HS that won't become professionals at it? At the top of everything in life, there are filters, no? Everyone can't become top tier, hence the reason it's top tier. |
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It’s fine to not be top tier. Most kids play to get exercise, learn the game, be a good teammate and good sport, time management, make friends.
But the pipeline to college is a moneymaker too - all the travel for the showcase tournaments. It wears your kid down and makes it hard for them to study, especially junior year when everything is so important and classes are hard. And there just isn’t much of a pipeline. Probably even less so now due to roster limits. |
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You used to be able to play travel soccer and ensure you would make the high school team with a pretty good shot at college.
The percentage of players making it to either level is so minuscule today. Broken broken broken system. |
Did you miss the conversation about title IX on the first page or do you not know what that is? |
And yet 1/2 our HS team is MLSNext players. Lol. That 'prohibition' is one people are loop-holing. |
+1 |
My son didn't make Varsity HS at his private and he is playing D1 soccer. HS soccer is a joke. They did your daughter a favor if she does have aspirations to play in college. HS soccer just makes you a worse player IMO. |
Good luck arguing for men anything in this era of grrrl power. |