Getting out of a relationship that I’m not completely sure how I got into

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are spending days at a time togehter and in a sexual relationship. He is your boyfriend. Have you ever had a conversation at all about this relationship?

You need to break up with him. Don't play dumb, naive, incompetent female. You knew what you were doing - it didn't just happen. Now you need to end it like any dating relationship.

We’ve never had a proper conversation about it. In some ways I feel like he slipped into my life. When I hired a contractor I never thought this would happen. When I say we spent hours together working out a design, picking materials etc I mean it and in that time we just started talking about ourselves and it became a very comfortable relationship that evolved. Sometimes he would work really late to get something finished I’d end up feeling bad and making him diner so we were also eating together. I think had this not occurred in my home it would have not happened. Our relationship does not extend outside the house though. There are no labels, we don’t go out on dates etc.

Your language is SO passive, like this just wondrously happened to you. No, girlfriend, you slept with this guy! He didn't assault you, you were an active participant! YOU took actions that led to this "no labels" relationship! Own it and cut him loose as kindly as possible!

[Anonymous]

Why do you say there's no future for you two? Is due to a difference in socioeconomic levels.