My husband has turned into an incel/troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is an incel, that’s on you. If you don’t know what incel means, also on you.

Pretty much

[Anonymous]

I understand your pain OP, my husband has turned in a person where you don’t know what innocent remark will set him off into a conservative tirade. It’s tiring and I just tune him out and barely speak when he is around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If your husband is an incel, that’s on you. If you don’t know what incel means, also on you.

Pretty much

A bunch of guys have embraced the Incel label who aren't actually celibate. They have sex with their wives and girlfriends, but because they are not as hot as these guys believe they deserve, that sex doesn't count. Yes, it's as dumb as it sounds.

[Anonymous]

Well, I would start by:

1)Make him drive you everwhere, as women should not drive

2)Women do not need to work, so stop working and have him pick up the slack

3)He does the yard work and you tend the vegetable garden

4)Men do all the heavy lifting chores like take out trash, house maintaince, cooking on the grill, etc. Women cook indoors and take care of children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He listens to niche alt-right podcasts and is a twitter troll.

He cannot be reasoned with and he spews hateful rhetoric about women and minorities.

I promise he was not like this!! I don't know how much longer I can do this!

Anyone who sits around that much daily on any podcasts, tv or social media is a loser.

Not marriage material.

[Anonymous]

I would ask if your husband is Rod Dreher, but I hear he is already divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Usha, is that you?

She must hate herself. The Vances both come across as deeply self-loathing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Radicalization via social media algorithms. Life plays out like a Black Mirror episode.

Lots of DCUMs are radicalized to the left, but they think that’s just fine. Divorcing over politics sounds insane to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, I would start by:

1)Make him drive you everwhere, as women should not drive

2)Women do not need to work, so stop working and have him pick up the slack

3)He does the yard work and you tend the vegetable garden

4)Men do all the heavy lifting chores like take out trash, house maintaince, cooking on the grill, etc. Women cook indoors and take care of children.

I would not advise stop working if she thinks they might not stay together in the long term. This could easily be one of those situations where she tolerates things for years and then bails when they have an empty nest.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t sleep with a man that hates women either, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I understand your pain OP, my husband has turned in a person where you don’t know what innocent remark will set him off into a conservative tirade. It’s tiring and I just tune him out and barely speak when he is around.

I could've written this post! I share your pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I understand your pain OP, my husband has turned in a person where you don’t know what innocent remark will set him off into a conservative tirade. It’s tiring and I just tune him out and barely speak when he is around.

I could've written this post! I share your pain.

Why oh why is it worth staying in such a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I understand your pain OP, my husband has turned in a person where you don’t know what innocent remark will set him off into a conservative tirade. It’s tiring and I just tune him out and barely speak when he is around.

I could've written this post! I share your pain.

Why oh why is it worth staying in such a relationship?

The ladies of DCUM aren't about to leave their high-earning conservative husbands for a nice, sensitive liberal teacher or social worker.

[Anonymous]

Tell me he is a Trump supporter w/out telling me that he is a Trump supporter. 😡

Eww, your husband may be depressed.
Many men who are depressed come across as very angry individuals since depression tends to manifest itself into anger - especially among men.

[Anonymous]

To OP: are you fat? Progressive? Miserable? Hate Christians?