| I think I look slightly better with brown hair but, hands down, I get more attention as a blonde. Even professionally it helps me stand out. I’m a little sick of dying it but I’m not ready to go back yet. |
Holly Madison is not a natural blonde |
I don’t know if I should keep blonde because it’s so high maintenance and I also “feel” less attractive. But way more attractive men show interest in me when I have blonde hair. I just think men like the brightness or something. Blondes are also rare because it’s expensive and damaging to upkeep (and keratin extensions cost thousands) |
| So I’ve been an attractive brunette all my life with highlights or sometimes auburn/red. I say attractive because I modeled in youth and constantly get compliments on my appearance, hit on, etc. During pandemic, I took a plunge and went really blonde with blonde base and highlights. I liked the change at first and did get some attention but I felt like people didn’t like it as much and the maintenance involved was honestly too much. After about 9 months of that, I went back to brown and had people that met me only when I was blonde, be like “wow, you look amazing as a brunette, you look younger!”’ It was wild but it’s told me I am one of the rare ones who looks way better as a brunette than a blonde. It was so damaging too. Took me about a year to have good quality hair after all the bleaching. |
Actually, isn't the goal to attract one person, and don't you want that one person to love you exactly as you are? |
| I also want to ask if you are going after quantity or quality. |
| When you start getting more white hair, it’s easier to be blonde. |
| As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair. |
The men I see with mousy brunettes and asians are tech nerds The most attractive brunettes are the Latin or Mediterranean ones. Blondes are considered most attractive overall |
| As you age, lighter hair generally looks much better and less harsh than really dark shades of black or brown. This summer I'm going to try a sunny blonde balayage. I usually like to do warmer blonde tones in summer and cooler platinums in winter. |
| I don't think it really matters. |
| As long as you have a blonde bush… |
Um. have you ever heard the term "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? DH prefers darker coloring. He's dated all kinds. I also prefer darker coloring, but DH is ash blonde with gray/blue eyes. |
| If your face isn’t pretty, blonde hair can be a good distraction. But if you’re pretty with a good figure you’ll do better to do what flatters you |
DH, is that you? LOL. He's the exact same way. And he's dark blonde, blue eyed who has dated all types. |